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FutureMrsAF
Super August 2017

Do I have to invite EVERY woman to the bridal shower?

FutureMrsAF, on June 3, 2017 at 11:24 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

My mom is asking for a list of women I'd like to invite to the shower. Do I really need to invite every woman that's invited to the wedding? Some are SO's of the invited guests or plus one's (yes, they are still guests, but I don't know them) or very distant relatives of FH's that I've never met? What's the protocol on a bridal shower?

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Latest activity by Mrs. Koalajetski, on June 3, 2017 at 4:47 PM
  • Samantha
    Devoted June 2017
    Samantha ·
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    The venue my FMIL chose for the shower could only fit 40 people, so we had to limit the women we invited. I started with family and my close friends, and then only added SO's of guests that I have hung out with before. I wouldn't invite any SO's that you haven't personally met or know.

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Absolutely not. A bridal shower is supposed to be an intimate affair with only those closest to the bride.

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  • Choua
    Super August 2017
    Choua ·
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    I only did family and close/local friends. I have a bunch of sorority sisters I originally wanted to invite but it would get way too big. I don't think you need to invite SOs.

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  • BookcaseHat
    Master July 2017
    BookcaseHat ·
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    Of course not. It should just be your closest friends/family.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    No. Bridal showers aren't for just women, and they aren't for all women.

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  • Private_User832
    Master August 2017
    Private_User832 ·
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    No you not have to invite every woman

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    Definitely not. We decided to keep it small and do just my family and FH family. My BMs are cousins so they are included. You just need to make sure that whomever is invited to the shower is invited to the wedding.

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  • New
    VIP May 2017
    New ·
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    Yeah...I had to reign in my MOH...she was asking about everyone on the guest list.

    I just don't want to appear gift grabby so had her remove a few people from the shower invite list.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2017
    Kelsey ·
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    Glad you made this thread - my mom just came over to use my Cameo to address my shower invites and she was telling me I had to invite the girlfriends of my fiance's friends that I've never even met!

    I thought it would be super rude to invite people I don't even know to what is essentially a gift giving party, so I'm glad I didn't break any dumb rule lol.

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  • Mrs. Koalajetski
    Super May 2017
    Mrs. Koalajetski ·
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    For a bridal shower only invite those who are close to you and those you plan to invite to the wedding.

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