Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We are addressing our save the dates and I am wondering if I need to send separate save the dates for each child in a household if they are over 18. We are absolutely planning on doing this when...

My officiant is a personal friend and used to be my pastor before she moved four years ago. She will be driving a couple of hours to marry us and we're paying for her hotel room. How much should we...

What would be the best possible way(s) to improve the wedding for a bride if she were on her period for her wedding? I still have a few months but though of this as a "what if" sort of situation.

How much time from your actual wedding date and RSVP cut off date do you Do? How long before wedding should invites be in the mail?

Last night I was looking for veil inspirations so I was scrolling through some wedding venues instagrams. I was surprised that about 80% of the brides weren't wearing a veil. Are veils becoming less...

To start everything off, let me be clear. There will be no ACTUAL Dollar Dance. I like the idea behind it where each guest can have a guaranteed moment of time with us, but I refuse to ask anyone to...

So- according to Martha Stewart- regarding tipping your vendors, if the person at your wedding OWNS the business you do not tip. If the vendor sends employees to work at your wedding, you DO tip them....

Hello! I would greatly appreciate some advice. My FH and I are currently renting, and we wanted to buy a house after the wedding. Well my father told my FH that he would be happy to give us the money...

I've always had a very strained relationship with my parents, especially my dad we have never been close, we maybe talk once every six months. They are not putting any money towards the wedding, it is...

Has anyone ever used Spotify to DJ their wedding? As my handle suggests, I'm extremely frugal with only months to plan a September wedding. Thoughts please and thank you!

So some of our wedding party are expecting to get a wedding invitations in the mail, I feel silly sending an invitation to the bridesmaids and groomsmens who should already know when/where/time of the...

I first want to mention that I am not planning my own bachelorette party - my MOH and BMs started scheming some time ago and periodically ask me for input. So anyways, as some of you may know, I quit...

We're ordering our invites from wedding paper divas (huge 50% sale right now till May 23) and 70% of our guests will be addressed Mr. and Mrs; but for the others where we are giving a plus 1, where do...

I'm trying to figure out the proper etiquette for bridesmaid proposals. I want to do a bridesmaid brunch proposal where I present them with bridesmaid proposal gifts. I'm not sure whether to splurge...

Hey y'all! I'm going the easy way and using return labels for my STD and invitations. My fiancé and I currently live in Arlington but we are moving in September. Because of that I am just using my...

I keep seeing others post about grooms cakes, What is the purpose of one. I highly doubt I am going to have one, but I'm just curious HAHA

Hey everybody. Im in the early stages of planning so we started talking about the guest list and im wondering if EVERYONE should get a plus one. We aren't having a huge wedding and don't want to go...

I am still so lost on tipping even after reading through so many on here. I'm still doing research on tipping, however questions on the catering. I know that typically with catering you tip per...

We are trying to figure out our processional , and getting a little stuck with FH family. Some background: his parents divorced 20 years ago. Mom is still not totally over it (super religious family,...

Should probably explain that. We WILL have cupcakes and/or macarons as well for everyone. But we are considering just a very small cake for the cutting, is that okay or should I definitely plan on...