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Nick
Transportation for guests?
Nick, on May 17, 2017 at 12:56 PM

Our ceremony and reception are at the same venue. We have a block of rooms reserved at two hotels. The hotel we are staying at is 2 miles from the venue, the other is 5 miles away. Guests that would...

Sandra, May 17, 2017 24 2,942
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Help! Too many speeches for reception!
Diana, on May 17, 2017 at 3:23 PM

Hi everyone! We have our MOH and BM giving a speech at our reception along with my brother who is walking me down the aisle. However, 2 of my other bridesmaids want to give speeches. They're both very...

Richard, May 17, 2017 13 217
HappilyEverConforti
Ceremony Programs for Secular Wedding
HappilyEverConforti, on May 16, 2017 at 2:48 PM

What is everyone's thoughts on a ceremony program for a non-religious wedding? Not needed? Crucially needed? Take it or leave it? Thanks in advance!!

caitlin, May 17, 2017 18 338
Nicole
Walking down the aisle songs
Nicole, on May 9, 2017 at 10:32 AM

The songs that you are using for the bridal party and yourself to walk down the aisle, are you using just instrumental songs? Or songs with the words?

Shy-Bull, May 17, 2017 24 2,170
2ndTime
Vote: entree options on RSVP card?
2ndTime, on May 17, 2017 at 10:24 AM

I need some help and opinions about what most people would prefer. FH does too. ("Will you please post on that wedding forum and ask those people since they know what they are doing?" lol) We won't...

Vicki, May 17, 2017 28 737
wifeytobejuly17
Why are seating charts a thing?
wifeytobejuly17, on March 7, 2017 at 4:02 PM

Thinking of not doing a seating chart. (Hear me out). When I have been to weddings in the past I ALWAYS get stuck at a table that I do not know a single person. I think people think since I am an...

Britten, May 17, 2017 89 449
Cali
Proper way to address family in invitation?
Cali, on May 9, 2017 at 8:42 AM

What is the appropriate way to address an invitation as a family? Do you name each child or refer to them as "and family"? I've seen both: Mr. and Mrs. John Jones and Family OR Mr. and Mrs. John Jones...

BlueHenBride, May 17, 2017 10 3,473
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Bridesmaid Can't Attend Wedding
Sarah, on May 16, 2017 at 5:32 PM

My wedding is only 1 month away and I just found out one my of out-of-town bridesmaid lost her job and never bought a plane ticket, so now she can't afford to go to the wedding. My other maids and I...

S. Suarez, May 16, 2017 70 3,878
Candy
How far in advance do I have a bridal shower
Candy, on May 15, 2017 at 6:39 PM

One of my bm' s is asking about setting up a bridal shower but I'm not sure when is too soon or too late to have it I know I still have plenty of time , the big day is May of 2018

AshleeC423, May 16, 2017 16 5,572
Jackamelia
Recovering Alcoholic at the Wedding
Jackamelia, on May 16, 2017 at 7:21 PM

Is it insensitive to have an open bar at the wedding when we know one of the guests is a recovering alcoholic? I'm really torn about this: we don't want to jeopardize this person's recovery in any...

smox, May 16, 2017 19 1,512
LynZLeigh
Introverted Groom, slightly concerned
LynZLeigh, on May 15, 2017 at 10:57 PM

Hey, y'all! We have 18 days left until the big day, so I've taken to fretting over little shit that probably isn't an actual problem. One of those things is how my FH is going to process the day, and...

FallforLindahl, May 16, 2017 26 2,152
Emily
Am I gifting inappropriately?
Emily, on May 16, 2017 at 4:15 AM

When I go to a reception I always bring the same gift: a 28pc set of Rubbermaid Tupperware. My friends are generally in their early 20s, just starting out, and everyone needs Tupperware! I know I...

Mrs. Fall Bride, May 16, 2017 119 400
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Rehearsal vows???
Nicole, on May 16, 2017 at 12:44 AM

We are writing our own vows. During the rehearsal, will we just skip over that part? I want the vows I write to be a surprise for the wedding! I'm just not sure how the rehearsal is supposed to go....

MsRiahToMrsP, May 16, 2017 9 1,898
Megan
Wedding roles for young boys?
Megan, on May 16, 2017 at 3:01 PM

I have three adorable little cousins who I want to include in my wedding. One is at a good age to be a ring bearer, but I want to include his older brothers(11 and 8) in the wedding as well. We don't...

A. L., May 16, 2017 5 307
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Please let me know if this is a silly idea! Giving the venue a smaller headcount???
sharay, on May 13, 2017 at 4:21 PM

Hi all. So I was doing some thinking. I'm quite nervous about guests rsvp'ing and still not showing up. I've talked to plenty of brides and it has all happened to them. When you give the venue a...

Natalie, May 16, 2017 24 1,686
Linda
How to address a place card
Linda, on May 16, 2017 at 11:07 AM

Good Morning All, Probably a silly questions but I was wondering. A friend of mine is married but she never changed her name. She will be attending my wedding without her husband. How should I address...

cokesmcgokes, May 16, 2017 10 267
M
Step parents!
Mackenzie, on May 16, 2017 at 11:43 AM

So my FH parents split up when he was in high school. They both re-married. Neither of them helped raised my FH and I was wondering about the proper etiquette on getting his "step-parents"...

Harts&Bows, May 16, 2017 10 331
laura
45 minute cocktail hour?!
laura, on May 16, 2017 at 8:28 AM

45 minutes is that too short?! Should we make it the whole hour? Most pictures will be done beforehand, and we'd like to get in with our guests as soon as possible!

MrsBurkes2020, May 16, 2017 15 1,959
MrsJohnsonToBe
Mother of the Bride gift
MrsJohnsonToBe, on May 15, 2017 at 7:09 AM

My mom has been an absolute gem when it comes to this wedding planning. From multiple trips to Hobby Lobby, AC Moore, Dollar Tree, etc...to spending countless hours on Pinterest and Etsy...to helping...

MrsJohnsonToBe, May 16, 2017 5 682
Daisy
RANT: Streaming a Wedding via Facebook Live
Daisy, on May 15, 2017 at 11:50 PM

This is my first time starting a topic but I cannot get over how people don't seem to have boundaries or any sense of etiquette when it comes to Facebook. An acquaintance of mine just Facebook live...

OGA, May 16, 2017 14 581
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