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Alright guys, I have my 30 day final sit down meeting with my venue tomorrow and I have a little final checklist they go through with me on what I need and what time everyone shows up, etc. But I...
Be a guest at my wedding! For some reason, she has conveniently forgotten that my divorce was not amicable and I haven't been in communication with any of that family for at least four years. That...
Hi Brides! My FH would like to have a rehearsal dinner that is open to extended family and anyone that has traveled from out of town, but do it casually somewhere like BJ's. My only reservation is I...
We are having a destination wedding so most will not be able to attend. I haven't picked a wedding and reception venue yet. The one I am leaning towards only holds 60 people. Does everyone I invite to...
After recent drama with the FMIL, I've been feeling down about the wedding and wanting to elope. FH feels the same way, and neither of us can muster up any excitement about the wedding anymore. Does...
This may be a silly question but I want to be sure I know the proper etiquette on this.. how do you determine how much to tip your venue staff? I've read that you do based off of the number of staff...
Can anyone let me know if they've every gotten this email and whether or not they actually received anything of value from it? Just curious to know whether or not it's spam and/or a waste of time.
How are you guys handling guest who rsvp after the deadline?Are you making exceptions? Or denying their RSVP ? I have 60 guest who have not RSVP'd and today is my cut off date. I feel like I may get...
Hi everyone, both my FMIL and MOH are throwing me 2 separate showers. Should I give them a shower thank you present for hosting?
I really want to avoid people inviting others who aren't invited on the outside of the invitation. Is it tacky to fill in the "M_________" line for guests on the RSVP card? I only have 40 guests so...
So for financial reasons and my FH saying he wants me to have the wedding I deserve
My FH wants to invite a lot of work people I don't know. I'm fine with never having met them but I'm not fine with the fact that he has never (1) hung out with these people outside of work and (2)...
I still haven't changed my last name! I know, I'm lagging... I DO want to change it but I'm worried about fees, filling out forms correctly, and making sure I get everything needed and that my name...
Help!!!! SO many single guests have RSVPed to our wedding with plus ones that they were not given. These are people that we do not know nor want at our wedding. Additionally, our venue has a guest...
I've seen this topic before but I haven't found a "tactful" way of saying "we're on our 2nd marriages, we aren't registered, we'd really appreciate money instead...." I've read some cute poems, but...
How to prevent being on your period for wedding
So my wedding day has passed, we had a wonderful time and it was absolutely beautiful! My dress was beautiful but now it's looking a little dirty. I want to have it cleaned and preserved but there...
I think i k ow the answer to this, but we sent save the dates early in the planning process and were pretty liberal in doing so. However, there are a couple people we havent talked to since sending...
I always wanted a small wedding party, so I asked only my close cousin and my best friend to be my bridesmaid and MoH. My cousin lives close by, but my MoH is wrapping up medical school/starting her...
My DOC just emailed me the timeline and she wrote down that the bar will be closed from the end of cocktail to the start of dinner. I'm sure this is to allow the bartender to shut down the downstairs...
