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KW
Expert August 2017

Invitation wording

KW, on May 22, 2017 at 3:10 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

Hi all

My husband & I were married 4 yrs ago in a civil ceremony...he is not from the US so we had a small intimate ceremony (just immediate family) for immigration purposes. Now the time has come where we can afford & want to have a reception w/our extended family & friends. We are having a Catholic ceremony--our priest agreed to the convalidation because of our extenuating circumstances. I feel like I need to explain myself, since I may get accused of wanting to have a "pretty princess day" but really it is important to me to be married in the Church and 4 years ago, we couldn't do it on such short notice.

I need help with wording my invitations. Our guests all know we are married already. But, since we are getting married in the Church, it's not exactly a vow renewal either.

I was thinking of something like:

__&__

request the honor of your presence at the nuptial Mass for the blessing of their marriage

Does this make sense? Any other suggestions?

7 Comments

Latest activity by KW, on May 22, 2017 at 4:01 PM
  • Wanda
    Super February 2018
    Wanda ·
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    Sounds good to me!

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  • Susan
    VIP December 2017
    Susan ·
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    That sounds good to me. Also, does your priest have any ideas for wording? (I'm Orthodox, so I've seen people do something like "request the honor of your presence as we celebrate the sacrament of marriage to bless the union of", but the wording would obviously be a little different in your case.)

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    Congratulations!

    Wording looks good or you could use the word "convalidation."

    You are correct, it's not a vow renewal, it's a sacrament Smiley smile

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  • KW
    Expert August 2017
    KW ·
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    @Susan good idea I'm not sure why I didn't think to ask the priest! We are receiving the sacrament of marriage, so that wording could work for us too. Thanks for the suggestion Smiley smile

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  • KW
    Expert August 2017
    KW ·
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    @Nonna thanks! I was just worried that using the word "convalidation" would be confusing to the non-Catholics (maybe even to the Catholics too since it's not very common!)

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    If it weren't for these forums I'd have to google convalidation Smiley smile But I think using that or the blessing language you have is perfect!

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  • KW
    Expert August 2017
    KW ·
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    @WWLynnie thanks for the feedback! Smiley smile

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