Sibling Date Invite

You're in the right, you should definitely invite her.

You should invite her.

Invite her. Let her be the one to say no if she so chooses

From the minute they decided to be considered a couple, they were a couple. Timeframe has nothing to do with it.

She should be invited, it's a nice gesture.

She should be invited.

Thanks all!

Just put {Brothers Name} and Guest on the invitation. This allows him to bring a plus one, regardless of if he is dating this same girl at the time of your wedding.

^^ Ahhh nope, if you're inviting this girl you need to invite her by name.

However she doesn't need a separate STD. You can just address your brother's as Brother Lastname and Girlfriend DifferentLastName.

Ex: John Smith and Jane Doe.

I would invite her!

She should be included

Personally I'm for siblings always getting plus ones unless you have a really good reason not to

Why do they have to be dating for a year and a half to be considered a couple? Because they're young and not 21 yet? LOL.. invite her. They're a couple (even if they were only dating for 3 days) and if they've been dating for a year, a serious one.

What does not being 21 have to do with it?

Also, I HATE when people use cohabitation as a determining factor if your relationship is legitimate/serious or not. My FH and I have chosen not to live together before marriage, but this doesn't make us any less "serious."

Honestly I HATE ... yes HATE my brothers gf or fiance or something ... and nobody does like her ... but do i have to. Invite her of course ... if rather not invite my brother lol but that won't go over well ...i think you should

Yes, you definitely have to invite her!

I'm the last of my siblings to get married. When my brother got married a year and a half ago, FH was deployed and couldn't come, but we'd been together for about 2 years at that point...and I was invited by myself. I was super offended.

Your MOH is wrong. And...he's your BROTHER.

She should be invited. Especially considering she's with such close family

Ya this is all what I thought and why I was planning on doing it originally (and still plan on it). When I finally mail the invites, would it be wrong if me to address one invite to both of them but in the care of our parents? My brother's school is only a couple hours from our parents and he prefers not getting mail at school and wherever I want to send something to him he asks me to send it to our parents instead and he'll just get it next time he's home

Your moh is wrong