Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi everyone! How are you planning on calming your nerves on our big day? 1. A few drinks? 2. Music, games? 3. Relaxing, going for a walk? 4. Any other tips?

I am having my wedding in Mexico in December when should invites go out? How much time should I give people to RSVP?

I asked earlier regarding black tie vs black tie optional and there were a lot of things said about Black tie being the entire event. So now everyone, I am curious as to what constitutes a Black Tie...

My husband and I got married on April 11, 2015 at city hall. We went to work right after and never did anything to celebrate, some people don’t even know we’re married. My husbands parents were there...

I wanted the ceremony part outside-if weather permits of course There is a little park beside our venue I rented a pavillion months ago Fmil never liked my idea because I didnt get the pavillion that...

Me and my fiancé have been together for 8 years. He has wanted me to marry him for a long time but I hesitated for some time because he had a lot more family and work freinds he wanted to involve and...

Ok, first things first a certain part of me feels like it was sweet that my fiancé’s mom was so excited she took it upon herself to choose and purchase my ring. But also a little off of the wall... He...

I'm lost on what gifts to give my two flower girls for their gifts! I want to get them two shirts for them to wear the day before for the rehersal and dinner. But as far as their actual gifts I'm at a...

Hi all! I have a maid of honor that will not RSVP. I’m having sort of a destination wedding, it’s 7 hours away. She has know about the distance prior to me asking her to be my maid of honor. She...

I knew someone who was getting married who was adamant that she did not want anyone taking pictures of her wedding, with their own personal devices. What are your thoughts on this?

Hi all, I'm trying to write scripting for my officiant to announce our unplugged wedding experience before the ceremony commences. Some things to note: our wedding is outside and a casual experience....

I’m the lady of honor at a close friend’s wedding and she casually texted me last night to let me know that due to 8 people per table seating, my husband and I would not be seated together for the...

We have been planning to have an adult only wedding. We set a strict age limit of 18 or older so that there would be no upset feelings if some were invited or some weren't. We decided on this for many...

Hi all, I feel like there’s so much info on invitations but not so much on place cards. That said, what are the rules for placecards? Specific to us, we’re having a formal wedding (yes, tuxedos and...

They've been together for five months. His mom is my wedding planner. He's never really been in a super long term relationship, but she seems solid. Because it's a Save the Date I'm not doing and...

So my wedding is October 20. My FH told his groomsmen to have their vests ordered by this weekend because they're shipping from China and then have to be altered. We reminded one of the groomsmen...

So I have a lot of family out of the country that we're sending invitations to. My plan was to send them save the dates soon so they have around a year notice in case they want to come (they will need...

So my hubz to be and I are trying to cut cost as much as possible!!! We are fine with our budget, but we don't really care to use that money on our day, but to save it and spend half of it on our...

I’m not even sure if this is a thing haha. My MOH and a wonderful friend are hosting my bachelorette bash this weekend and I was trying to figure out if a pair of Baublebar earrings and a bottle of...

Hello all! I am sure this is somewhere in the forum, but I couldn’t find it within the first 5 pages lol. My FH and I have lived together for 4 years, therefore, we have everything we need for our...