My FSIL just had her first baby. I am over the moon thrilled for them and love my little niece. When we went to visit them at the hospital, she already started talking about changing her mind and wanting to bring our new niece to the wedding. This bothers me some because we are having a kid free wedding and I would be frustrated by it. Since she’s in the bridal party though, I’d get over it. I will say I’d prefer the baby not get ready with us and since both parents are in the bridal party, I’m not sure how all of this will work. I don’t want to spend all this time with a newborn on my wedding day. No offense to parents or kid lovers, that’s just not me.
My shower is in just a few weeks though. I’m worried that she will now bring her to that. I hate to sound rude or mean but that day is for me and I feel like it will turn into a second shower for her with a lot of attendees being from FH’s side. It’s an adult event and I really would be bothered by it. I also don’t want to offend her or my new family though.
How to handle?!
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