Gift for the poor- Catholic Wedding

Hi there Maggie!!! Welcome to the WeddingWire community!!!

In terms of a gift to the poor, I think they usually mean some sort of physical donation to a local charity, not monetary. I know when my church is throwing religious events like first communions that they ask those participating to bring in canned food donations for their food pantry. The kids bring it up in little baskets and rest them at the foot of the alter for the rest of the celebration, and then it goes to the pantry downstairs. It's an offering.

If you really have any questions, don't be afraid to ask your priest or someone else at the church. I bet it's not the first time they've been asked and I bet they're more than willing to help you figure it out. Hope that helps!