Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

FH and I are having our wedding at their family home, and we are concerned about underage drinking. We are only having about 3 guests that are under the age of 21, but still over 18. Since it is at a...

Are any of you inviting guests that you are worried about in terms of their behaviour? 1. Maybe they've been giving you a hard time with the wedding planning, or in general are negative towards your...

Happy Monday! A few weeks ago, I sent a message to each of my bridesmaids that they could all stay at my moms house with me the night before the wedding rather than pay for two nights in a hotel...

Hello Everyone, I am getting married in about a month and my sister just told me today that she is pregnant with her second child. I am very happy for her and congratulated her. She said they aren't...

Just wondering if it's a regional thing.... I have literally never been to a wedding that held an open bar. I am a bartender at a restaurant that hosts weddings (up to 250) and I have never worked an...

Myself and my FH absolutely hate public speaking and/or being the center of attention. Yes, even on our wedding day! We were thinking about doing vows with our very close family only, then having a...

Just wondering if anyone has posted a generic RSVP “reminder” on social media?? Our RSVPs are due in just over a week and we’ve only gotten 37 out of 95 back. I really don’t have time to track...

Hey there, Are any of your bridesmaids not really involved in the wedding, and when I say this, I mean: 1. You guys don't go anywhere, not shopping or anything together 2. No calling up to check on...

Hey everyone! so my wedding is in 3 weeks. our officiant is a Catholic priest who has done various things for my family over the years and we've had him booked for a while now. this week we went to go...

I've always wanted to have the ceremony at the reception hall. They usually offer a seperate room and then during the cocktail hour the guest move on into the next room where the reception is held,...

Please share your tacky wedding stories with me. It can be something that you've seen done at a wedding, something you did or just something you think should be avoided.

Hi all, I'm new here! I'm aware this post may attract anger and hate from what I've seen, so if you have any negative comments, please don't bother as I won't take those comments into account. What...

Hello I need advice! I recently got engaged and of course my fiance and I have started the conversation of when. We both agree that September 2018 is too soon and want to do September 2019. My...

Hey everyone. My FH and I decided to have no children at our wedding. I love my aunts and uncles kids. They're wonderful. However my family is big. And there are..a lot of kids...and we're having the...

Before I ask I want to say I know I will get some not so great feedback for asking but here it goes.. I have 3 single guest who I am inviting to the wedding because they are important to me and I grew...

My fiancé and I are apparently TERRIBLE at picking out people to be in our wedding. A month ago the best man stepped down from his duties so we replaced him. Now his son, who was the ring bearer, is...

So I’m getting married in 8 days and it just now crossed my mind, do you have a formal table and or seating for your vendors like your photographer? I just thought about it and am curious to see if I...

I got married on 08.11.18 and needless to say it was beautiful and just how I had envisioned it to be. We had around 200 guests and not all of the guests gave us gifts. Should we handwrite thank you...

I’m planning a destination bachelorette weekend and I really only want my close girlfriends to be there with me. My fiancé’s sister will be in our wedding. However, does that mean she needs to...