Happy Monday! A few weeks ago, I sent a message to each of my bridesmaids that they could all stay at my moms house with me the night before the wedding rather than pay for two nights in a hotel (we’ll be getting ready at my moms house the next morning and she is okay with them all staying at the house the night before). One of my bridesmaids asked if her husband could stay too; i didn’t think of it as a big deal so I said yes (we’re all young, going into grad school so I get wanting to save money). My mom is now telling me that I need to tell her and her husband that she needs to get a hotel for two nights. She’s the only one married. I hate being confrontational and don’t want to come off as rude. How would you approach this?
Edited to add: We are getting married where we live. All bridal party has to travel 4-6 hours. We will be getting ready early the next morning for our early afternoon ceremony.