Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Is it OK to have a honeymoon registry without having a bridal shower? And if so, how do I tell my guests about the registry without sounding like a freeloader?

Hi everyone! We are getting married in Estes Park, CO in June. It is a destination wedding. I'm currently in the process of printing our invitations, woo!! I started thinking about our room blocks and...

We have some people on our guest list that are in long term relationships with people we're not necessarily close with or really talk to. They also live with their S/O's. Of course the couple is...

My fiancé and I are in the early stages of planning our wedding (like just booking our venue tomorrow kind of early) and I’m already getting pressure from my mother about inviting people I don’t want...

We are trying to keep our wedding around 100-120 guests. With that number we have quite a few people (more distant relatives) being left off. We are sending save the dates in May for our wedding in...

Hi everyone! So I just posted asking how to proceed with a groomsman who’s fiancé is due with their first five days before our wedding. Well FH spoke to him and he decided to respectfully bow out- no...

Hey all, So we've gotten a contract from our videographer and I'm going to email her with this question as well but I wanted to get input from you guys. So, there's a clause that says (paraphrasing)...

So my daughter eloped in January (the day after getting engaged). It caused a lot of hurt and damage to relationships. My husband and I are not against the marriage (just the fact they did it without...

So yesterday one of my FH coworkers came up to him, and asked about his ring. FH told him its his engagement ring. And his co worker went on to say how guys arent supposed to wear those, and its a...

Hi- my dad passed away while I was in college and while I've made peace with it, I would still love to honor him during my wedding. Family members have offered to walk me down the aisle but I'd rather...

Honestly I am trying to keep this wedding small and the least expensive possible. I’m doing a rule that is no boy/girlsfriends at my wedding. Honestly I dont care how long they’ve been together unless...

So we’re having a wedding of about 125 people and so I decided to go with 6 groomsmen and 6 bridesmaids. The issue I am now having is my fiancé has asked his 6 friends to be his groomsmen and now my...

Hey, has anyone wax sealed their invitations ? How did it go for you If you did? I’m thinking of doing it but when looking on line about mailing difficulties I’m second guessing it.

I've read comments about couples doing a anniversary dance instead of bouquet and garter toss.. what is it exactly.

Hi! I'm having guests rsvp online and will definitely be including an rsvp card in the invitation, but do I also need a "details card" if all that information is on the wedding website? Can I include...

How did you greet or plan to greet your guests? Did you do a receiving line? Or did you make rounds with champagne? I have never attended a wedding and the few married friends I have all had...

Hey guys! So I’m not engaged yet however I do know that FI has purchased the ring and is planning on proposing between now and the next two months. (Yay!) We have a super open relationship with things...

My FH and I were thinking about it and we aren't sure we want to have dancing at the wedding. We will still have music playing and will still have the designated dances (first dance, etc). Outside of...

My FH has has two “best men” and they are “party boys,” even though my FH totally isn’t. They are planning his bachelor party and I just can’t help but feel a little worried. They are going to travel...

Hey guys, im currently debating whether or not to do eng