Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We picked our venue! YAY!!! I'm in the process of picking apart the Rental Agreement/Licensing Contract and FAQ sheet... Before I return our signed contract and CC authorization form (for payment),...

So I’m looking into eloping because I’m struggling to justify spending so much money on one night, when that money could go toward a house or something else. However, I want to have that time/day...

Hello! is it expected you give your attendants a gift day of the wedding? When I asked my attendants to be a part of my day I did give a little gift then (bracelet w a card). My fiancé is curious if...

We haven’t decided if we are going to have a ring bearer and flower girl yet. If we do it will be our niece and nephew. If we ask their parents (both kids are from the same set of parents) - what is...

I am just curious about how many woman are OKAY or NOT OKAY with their man going to see strippers and getting a lap dance on their Bachelor Party Night?? Is it okay? WHY?? Not Okay? WHY??

This is my first (hopefully only) marriage and I want it to be special. My fiancé has been married previously and has two young daughters with his ex. He really wants them to be a part of the wedding,...

Hello fellow brides, I’m taking a leap of faith here and I hope someone can offer me some good advice! I’ll try to keep this as short as I can. Okay so basically I am having some really strong...

So, my 2 “best friends” have been kicked out of my bridal party and disinvited due to their opinions of my relationship. One told mutual friends I am marrying him for money, that is not true and she...

Sorry for the long post but my mind is everywhere right now. I got a letter in the mail that my step grandmother and aunt want to throw me a bridal shower this summer. I live in Colorado and it would...

Hello! I am at a loss here and could really use some input. FH and I have decided to have a small, intimate wedding (immediate family and close friends only), cutting about 90 people from our guest...

Just a quick question about a theme I've noticed, but WHY does whatever etiquette dictate that the bridal party get a plus one? They're gonna be busy the entire 24 hours leading up to the ceremony...

We are having an adult wedding. Our confusion is how to handle exceptions - in this case babies. A lot of people say newborns should be an exception because they are still nursing or can't be left...

Ok, Ladies, I need your unbiased opinions and advice on my current situation as MOH in my youngest sister’s upcoming wedding. I’ll be the first to admit, the entire wedding process is largely...

Hi Brides, I have booked a photographer for 3 hours to do my wedding photos, just wondering if we offer them dinner or not?

What is the etiquette on this? As the bride, I did expect to give my parents a gift, but...Does the bride give a gift to both her parents and her future in laws? Does the groom also give gifts to his...

Hello, I'm trying to figure out if there's a set deadline of when people should send rsvp's back? Is it 2 months, 3 months or what? I'm not getting married until next year, but am planning the whole...

My date falls on Friday the 13...I'm jus curious has anyone else been married on that day?

Is it OK to have a honeymoon registry without having a bridal shower? And if so, how do I tell my guests about the registry without sounding like a freeloader?

Hi everyone! We are getting married in Estes Park, CO in June. It is a destination wedding. I'm currently in the process of printing our invitations, woo!! I started thinking about our room blocks and...

We have some people on our guest list that are in long term relationships with people we're not necessarily close with or really talk to. They also live with their S/O's. Of course the couple is...