Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So I've already been married since 2015. Strip clubs and bachelor parties recently came up again. I'll explain why. Back when we were still engaged, my hubby had his bachelor party and I just had one...

Hi everyone. Wondering if anyone has some insight. I live in Maui and we're getting married here in August. My catering company charges a 20% service fee applied to the food. The invoice also has...

Hi everyone, I got married in Sept 2017. I had a ballroom reception with 3 course dinner and a dessert table. Also there was an open bar and DJ and dancing. My cousin and her fiance came to my wedding...

My florist doesnt offer vases (they do, but i'd have to pay for them and theyre stupid expensive) so they suggested getting the 6 inch cylinder vases from dollar tree. i think that is what i wanna do,...

Is it us or the photographer? When we were posing she was telling us how to pose and that we were doing good. But the sneak peeks just came in and they make me want to cry and not happy tears. She...

We’ve been friends for over 5 years now. We’ve gotten in pittely arguements before, but managed to work it out, although I have always seemed to be the one putting in effort and apologizing. She was...

Has anyone used this online service? It's at startmarriagehere.com and it's a program for engaged couples called Prologue. It's from Gary Chapman (the 5 Love Languages author) and another premarital...

My wedding is 6 months away and the parents of my ring bearer just told me that they are going away the weekend of my wedding (beyond upset). So, I thought of a cute alternative to have my great...

Hello WW! My FH and I will be getting our engagement photos done tomorrow (yay!) and we are painting a wooden sign with his last name(my future) and est. July 13, 2019. It will read “The Welch’s est....

So on formal wedding invitations are you supposed to write guest as: “and Guest” or “& Guest” or is more of a preference? Also, for people who have apartment numbers do you format it like: 123...

Hi everyone, really enjoying all the posts and conversations on here and would appreciate some thoughts on something I'm not sure how to handle. Our wedding is coming up and my FMIL is pushing the...

We were invited to a Destination Wedding, and we didn't book rooms at the very expensive, all-inclusive resort, we booked an AirB&B instead.Here's our reasoning: We have a small child and the...

Just watched episode of today(Kathie Lee and hoda) from Facebook where they were promoting Zola and registering for cash but as things such as puppy fund or new house funds. Makes it seem that it's no...

Before anyone jumps all over me and says "Tacky, what's wrong with you...." this is why I'm asking. A polite "not a good idea" will suffice. Anyway...I have a lot of guests coming in from out of town....

I am recently and happily engaged! I've asked my future sister in law to be one of my bridesmaids, because it is important to him to have his family be apart of the wedding. I've also asked my own...

When looking at other forums, so many have been saying that inviting people to one part of your celebration and not the other is incredibly rude; however, many of the weddings we've been to in the...

I've always imagined a big wedding, however after getting engaged I realized it was outside the budget for FH and I. We've been together for 5 years and bought a house 2 years ago, we just want to be...

Hi everyone, So we're having a wedding for 110 people on a duck farm in the south west of France. Most guests are from Ireland, Canada, with some from France, the UK, and the US. We're really looking...

Hi all, I just got engaged on April 3rd and now we are working on asking the members of our bridal party to be in the wedding. I have an etiquette question.... should the bride's brother be a...

I really have no issue with it (it is quite expensive). Are anyone else's bridesmaids opting out of getting their hair and makeup done? I also told my makeup girl that theres a slight chance I am...