So I've already been married since 2015. Strip clubs and bachelor parties recently came up again. I'll explain why.
Back when we were still engaged, my hubby had his bachelor party and I just had one rule - please no strip clubs, and definitely no lap dances. Anyway, he came back from his trip and told me he didn't go to any strip clubs.
I've since grown more open to the whole strip club deal, as long as we both go together. We both have as a married couple once. Not really my thing, but it is what it is.
Recently we are going on a trip and it's the same city that my hubby had his bachelor party. He tells me we're definitely going to a strip club here. I ask him, oh, so we'll get to see the strip clubs there together for the first time? He doesn't answer me straightforward. I finally get an answer that, yes, he in fact has been to a strip club there on his bachelor party, and, yes, he did get a lap dance. How many? I don't know. I know that this city is okay with strippers touching their clients during lap dances, topless, etc.
I know, it's been almost four years since we've been married. I should just get over this, but I'm not mad at him, I do trust him, but I'm just so disappointed that he lied to me. I don't like the fact that right before we got married, some stranger was rubbing all up on him, but I guess the past is the past...
Am I overreacting? Please tell me if I am. I wish I could just get over this!