Hi, I want a little advice because I didnt expect this to be problematic and now, the subject has been raised.
So, I'm not inviting anyone under the age of 21 to my wedding. I'm not friends with anyone under 21, there aren't any family members I'm close to under 21, I worry about underage drinking in a venue, and tbh I really dont want children anywhere near my wedding (I'm a teacher). My fiance has been completely supportive of this idea. Apparently though, now it will be "extremely problematic" if we dont invite his underage cousins, according to my future mother in law. I have told all of my cousins - over 40 of them - that NO ONE under 21 is invited as a venue liability and now I worry that allowing some people and not others will become a bigger deal, so I'm not opening that door. I told them they were more than welcome to have his cousins at our church wedding - because that's supposed to be what matters, right? But that no, I will not change my stance on the venue.
What do you think?