Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I am about to ask the people I would like to be my bridesmaids to be bridesmaids in my wedding. I wanted to drop the proposal gift off to them. My one friend is terrible at responding, she often takes...

Because of Covid we couldn’t invite everyone we wanted but we have received several gifts from family members and friends that were not invited. This makes me feel terrible. Is this common? Even...

Is anyone else writing thank you cards for those that couldn’t come whether it’s due to being sick, being exposed, unable to travel, being high risk and cautious? I don’t know what to say but I want...

Are Save The Dates completely necessary?? We are trying to save money anywhere we can, hence the question. We have already announced our date officially on our socials and we are of course sending out...

Hi Brides! I wanted to get your perspective on doing physical invitations vs digital. My fiance and I aren't really keen on wasting paper and spending money on invitations when we can just do digital...

FH has a 9 year old daughter and me and her are awesome together and she likes being around me. We are planning 2022 and she will be 10 almost 11 at the time of the wedding. I know she is too old to...

Help! I don’t know what to do. My wedding was supposed to be this Saturday. We planned to have about 50 people, socially distanced, outdoors. Everything was ready to go. We knew all along that Covid...

Hi everyone! I am the MOH in my baby cousin's upcoming wedding on June 5th, 2021. I love her to pieces and just want all the pre-wedding festivities to be everything she's dreamt of. However, with...

This isn’t a question regarding WHO I can invite, but rather how I can invite them? My MOH is throwing me a bridal shower with our church women’s group (We’re approaching this in a way similar to a...

I am getting married on December 5th and we originally planned a 200 person wedding but with Indiana’s newest mandates we have to reduce our guest count to 50. We have decided to still get married in...

I feel stupid for asking this but... Our last name will be Bajpai And I'm ordering a sign for our wedding day but I don't know whether to spell it as The Bajpais or The Bajpai's Opinions??

So long story - sorry - 3 of my people who I want to be in my bridal shower cannot stand each other (2v1) - we all work together too. I also have 2 others who one of those also works with us. The two...

So this is a different scenario than people who came to the wedding, but didn't gift. I have a few people that sent a gift, but didn't come to the wedding. Obviously, I want to thank them for the...

Oh boy. We went out to eat with the inlaws, whom I adore, and FH takes it upon himself to ask his dad to be our photographer. He said yes and is excited. 😕 I SO appreciate this...but no thanks. The...

I got married almost exactly 3 months ago. I started my thank you cards but I never sent them. Is it more rude to send them this late? Or to not send them at all?

So I am now looking for a photographer for my wedding date. Upon doing research, photographers have varying times for what they offer (Usually ranges from 3 hrs to 10 hrs coverage). Any brides or...

Hi y’all! We got married October 24 and just got our video back from our videographer... I am so upset and in literal tears. My husbands family and mine are very different on religious views and how...