Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi all - long time lurker but first time posting on this forum - I am a bit upset with my photographer and want other people to let me know if I’m being a bit harsh or it makes sense for me to be...

I have an unusual situation, and wanted to poll the community to get a second opinion and maybe any advice how I could handle this better. There are a couple of moving parts, so please bear with me....

What is the deal with +1s? I'm sure it's NICE to give them, but is it rude to not give them?

When is it too early too send thank you notes for wedding gifts? I’m not getting married until July, but after we sent out the save the dates we have begun receiving a few gifts in the mail. Is it too...

Hi there! We had finally set our date this past summer for our wedding to be 7/4/2021 and so far we only have the venue/catering booked and I've done nothing else. When we originally set the date we...

Wedding 2.0, vow renewal, anniversary party whatever you want to call it.. my husband and I just want a total redo. Our wedding was a disaster. Not like someone died or anything but a lot went wrong....

I've seen a few discussions on inviting celebrities but I haven't found any that addressed this specific question. If you invited a famous person to your wedding, did you add "and guest" on the...

Hi all. My fiancé and I are getting married this Saturday. Obviously due to the pandemic nothing has gone right. We scaled our wedding guest list from 350+ to immediate family and a select few close...

We finally created our registry this past weekend (and I was right to dread it -- it was pretty much an awful experience for me, as it basically highlighted all of the kitchen shit I should be using...

A lady I know is marrying me this weekend. We asked her how much her fee was she said whatever we feel is right. So my question now is how much does someone charge to officiant a wedding?

My wedding day is tomorrow and I am so freaking done. This wedding planning has been nothing but stressful and horrible and i am tired of pretending that everything is fine and the selfish actions of...

Have a wedding this July 2021 and with all this COVID restrictions I have stopped spending money until hopefully things die down ... Question for you guys! PLease help me decide... It's just about...

Invitations - 90% of our guests THREW THEM AWAY including the postponement card with ALL the information needed including the new date, time, location, hotel and travel information and the website...

Hi everyone Does anyone have any experience with having people pay for their own food? My fiance and I are paying for the wedding party, but the package we have does not cover food. It is going to be...

Hey all! My reception venue is at a B&B and I have reserved the entire property including a cottage on the premise. We will have a wedding of 30 including myself and my fiancé. My fiancé’s family...

June 2021 bride here! Before Covid we had already sent out our save the dates to everyone on our guest list (a little early I know, we were eager!) well now since the pandemic is still ongoing and...

Hey all! Do you think it would be a bad decision to have my best friend and youngest sister to be my co-MOHs? My older younger sister will be officiating and my niece will be a bridesmaid. I want both...

Hello all! So I’m torn on picking a wedding venue. Our wedding is going to be a majority of out of state wedding guests. Like 80% of the guests. The venue I want is more in the country - far away from...

Hey y’all, I’m getting married in two weeks via an elopement. Due to COVID, I had no engagement party, no bridal shower, no bachelorette party. Nothing. My “wedding party” attending the ceremony is...

We've already had to postpone our wedding twice: once because my fiance had a career change, and then again we postponed our November wedding due to COVID. I've waited long enough to meet "the one",...