Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi everyone! When addressing invitations and such to a married couple, I know the proper etiquette is to use 'Mr. and Mrs. *husbands first & last name*'. I'm not a huge fan of this, and was...

Hi guys! I'm usually not one to post my dirty laundry online or even ask for advice, but I am in a situation I never in my life thought that I would be in. My boyfriend, of 2 years, proposed to me and...

I am having trouble with my soon to be husband over him wanting to just go to the courthouse and me to have my wedding ceremony and reception. He's been married before and this is my first time. I...

This will sound selfish, I’m completely aware that these feelings i’ve been having may not be fair or rational but it still hasn’t stopped me from feeling this way so here we go.. My fiancé and I have...

This question is more out of curiosity than for advice for myself. For those of you not inviting kids, how did you determine which age you considered a child and therefore not invited? Anyone under 18...

On Saturday our BM and GM threw us the best wedding shower, It was filled with love, food, drinks, dancing and so much laughter. I gave a little thank you speech and joked about how we should just get...

So I’m having a relatively small wedding, max 75 people, and I don’t really want a wedding party. I have a lot of people that I would want to be in my bridal party and first of all I don’t have the...

Has anyone looked for and gotten a new job before their wedding? How did you handle taking time off for the wedding at the new job? My job has changed and my role has completely changed. I used to...

How do you deal with telling someone they're not in your wedding party when you kind of know they're expecting to be? I have a sister who isn't on my fiance's good side (she said terrible things about...

Help! My fiancé and I are having such a hard time with our list. We NEED an intimate wedding bc we just have way too many friends. I have a group chat of about 10 girls that we are all very very...

My wedding in coming soon (May 22, 2021) and I'm interested in hearing some unique ideas/traditions you are considering/have done during your ceremony or reception. Everyone knows what to look forward...

I just really don't enjoy dancing, and I don't love to be the center of attention. So dancing at my wedding? Yikes. I know it's my day and my decision, but I also want to be a good host for my guests...

Anyone out there having bridesmaid regret?? I had asked my bridesmaids over a year and a half ago to be my bridesmaids (10) and with covid we are postponing the wedding to be summer 2022! I had let...

Tipping is a sensitive topic in our household. As a former hospitality employee and former delivery driver, I've had a pretty rediculous habit of over-tipping that I've since curbed to about 20-25%...

So I’m curious if anyone else is experiencing a similar predicament to me ...I’ve asked my mom to walk me down the aisle even though I’m on pretty good terms with my real dad. I also have a loving...

We had to postpone our wedding after we had already sent our invitations out and were starting to get RSVP's back. Is it wrong to send the exact same invitation and RSVP card just with the new date on...

My husband is a groomsman in a wedding next October across the country in California. It was supposed to be October of this year, but because of Covid they pushed it back a year. We had rsvp'd that...

I have 2 very close friends who I would like to ask to be my maids of honor. However, one is divorced and the other is married. I know that the rule of thumb is the one who is married is the matron of...

My thank you cards were delivered today. I sat down for about an hour and started writing. But it looks like I've got at least another 4-6 hours to go. Should I wait til I finish all of them to send...

Are you all handwriting the addresses for your save the dates or getting labels made?