Picked Wedding Date that is someone's birthday

This is definitely not rude or wrong. I would maybe reconsider if it was like...my mom's birthday or something, but your distant cousin's boyfriend and other cousin? You're fine. If they don't like it, they don't have to come.

It’s not rude. It’s not wrong either. I don’t see why people would even be upset about it.

No it's not rude or wrong at all

I don't think it's rude at all! The only time I would maybe reconsider is if it were an immediate family member's birthday or anniversary or something. Otherwise, if you were to take all of your guests' schedules and important dates into account, you'd never find a date that worked for everyone. If they're upset about the date you chose, they don't have to attend.

No this os not rude nor wrong. Do you.

I don’t think it’s rude at all! If you were to avoid dates due to other people’s birthdays, anniversaries, etc you’d never find a date!

I don’t find this rude at all. Like you said, there is always going to be something on every date. Plus, what a fun way to spend a birthday! You get to be around friends and family, and enjoy a great meal, drink cocktails, and party the night away... for free!! That sounds like a great birthday to me!

Nope! Not rude or wrong at all! We just found out our wedding date is my FH’s cousins birthday and no one is expecting us to move it.

Hi Mallory! Not rude at all - I went my cousin’s wedding on my birthday and thought nothing of it😁 if you like, you could have the DJ lead Happy Birthday song or present a small cake to them as a surprise. ❤️

Agree with the others- it’s definitely not rude or wrong! Our wedding dates will always fall on someone’s birthday, anniversary, etc.

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Congrats on getting engaged, I don't think you are wrong my cousin wedding is on my middle daughters birthday the year 2 years after my daughter was born it doesn't bother me. I think you should continue to plan the wedding on your chosen date best wishes

Definitely not rude or wrong! I lost a bridesmaid because our rescheduled date was the WEEKEND of her 2 year olds birthday party. Not even his birthday. You cannot know every date that may interfere with a guest.

It is fine . Disregard any birthdays or anniversaries unless they are big ones for which a large party involving booking rooms and caterer have already been booked. A 25th or 40th anniversary party for 200, for example. But birthdays are frequently observed in the days before or after, and avoiding 100 to 200 of them, as well as other weddings, graduations, baptisms or christenings, would make scheduling weddings impossible.

If it is not someone you are really close to I would go ahead with the date. It’s almost impossible to plan around everyone’s events

Ahaha, try having your wedding date land on Valentines Day, even though it wasn't planned that way, it just happened. I don't think there's anything wrong with having your wedding date land on that, lol, just be happy your wedding day isn't on some holiday... =_=

Dude my wedding was the same date as my maid of honor's birthday. she didn't care.

i mean i was shocked about it but it's what my husband picked because it was best for his schedule. so what we did was the day before [at rehearsal dinner] we got her a cake. and then everyone sang happy birthday to her. and then on our wedding day at the reception we had all our guests sing to her happy birthday and we printed on our stuff like at the bottom of the menu at every table, that it was her bday!