We're having what I guess is a "micro-wedding" next year, with only immediate family and godparents. Since the guest list is so small, we aren't having a wedding party. However, we want to make our siblings feel special and acknowledge the fact that in normal times, they would the wedding party. So, we're planning to send "non-wedding party request boxes" with presents of coordinating ties for the brothers and earrings for the sisters. We're also going to invite them to wear coordinating colors. If you've done this as well, could you share what you wrote as the invite/request for me to use as a base?
P.S. I know typically dictating what your guests wear is gauche, but I'm sure our siblings will appreciate it because 1. we're doing it as a modified form of how they would normally be included in the wedding and 2. they would have been coordinating colors regardless since they will also be getting family photos out of the event.
Thanks for any help you're able to provide!