I'm done.

Wow. That is a lot going on and I am so sorry you are feeling this way right before your wedding. So here is the realistic side of things, there is no way to cancel the wedding the day before and elope without upsetting everyone and losing out on money. Girl I just got married and it was when Tropical Storm Eta was brewing so I get the fear of rain and thunderstorms. Luckily we could have our ceremony outdoors but it was drizzle and I could not get the photo ops I wanted with sundown. I will tell you that you may feel a sense of disappointment the day after but honestly when I thought about the fact that I married the love of my life and had fun with some friends and I am starting a new chapter in my life as a married woman...it went away. I can still look back at what was not what I envisioned the day of but there were more happy times than bad and I loved the day. Your final day may not be fully perfect and it sucks that everything you hoped from your family did not pan out but do not let them be the downer to your day. Almost every bride I spoke discussed issues before and during their wedding but they still enjoyed their day because they focused on them marrying their loved one and that is the advice I can give you...that and drink a bit . I do sincerely hope your day tomorrow goes well.

Truthfully even if things aren't perfect just focus on him. I mean I had a small ceremony with two of our friends and my big bro came for the ceremony but just seeing him and he was so happy and had a such a good time that I had a good time. Just get through the hen party and get through the day even with the annoyances (girl I had some meltdowns too and my day did not fully turn out how I dreamed) but it was ultimately a great day and now I am living life as a wifey which I love lol. Worse case, you could do a vow renewal elopement down the line.

What is a hen night?

I hope everything went well! I'm glad you were able to rant a little and get some stress off your back!