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Just Said Yes October 2021

Co-moh-intimate Wedding

Liz, on November 25, 2020 at 11:24 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11

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Hey all!

Do you think it would be a bad decision to have my best friend and youngest sister to be my co-MOHs? My older younger sister will be officiating and my niece will be a bridesmaid. I want both my BFF and sister to be my MOH and I know that they each would love to be recognized as such.
The thing isI am having a very intimate wedding of about 30 of our closest friends and family members. Does that make a difference when deciding to have two MOHs?
I’m new to all this and I feel like I’m overthinking everything so please help me out.

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Latest activity by Hannah, on November 28, 2020 at 4:05 PM

Master September 2020
Nicole · on November 25, 2020 at 11:48 AM
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I don’t think the size of your wedding is of any consequence in this matter. If you want them to be co-MOHs, then ask them!
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Legend July 2022
Lisa · on November 25, 2020 at 12:10 PM
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I don't think that's a bad idea at all! I say go for it!
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Devoted September 2022
Soon2Bemarried · on November 25, 2020 at 12:16 PM
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Agreed, two MOH’s are fine as long as you’re satisfied with them in those roles. People have uneven wedding party’s all the time, there’s nothing saying you can’t have multiple honor attendants.
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Master April 2021
Mrs. Spring · on November 25, 2020 at 12:35 PM
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Hhhmmm. I don't see any issue. Do your thing!
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Master July 2019
Hannah · on November 25, 2020 at 1:01 PM
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The size of the wedding doesn't matter. However, if you are having 2 co-MOHs and 1 bridesmaid, that bridesmaid may feel a little hurt. In that case, I would probably have 1 MOH or no MOH.
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Master April 2021
Michelle · on November 25, 2020 at 4:55 PM
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Totally agree! Your wedding, your vision! It doesn’t matter on the size of the wedding! Go for it & stop overthinking this! Lol!
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Master October 2020
Yasmine · on November 26, 2020 at 7:08 AM
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Both my sister and my bestfriend are my MOH. We didn't have e a bridal party for our minimony but they will be for our big wedding
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Super October 2020
Molly · on November 26, 2020 at 11:56 AM
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It has been done before. My friend had four co-MOH and 6 bridesmaids I know a bit much. But I have seen it done before.
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Just Said Yes February 2021
Melissa · on November 27, 2020 at 12:27 PM
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That’s exactly what I did. My BFF and my big sis are my matrons of honor. I was one of two MOHs in each of their weddings. It’s not uncommon. Our wedding will be 25 people including the wedding party.
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Just Said Yes October 2021
Liz · on November 28, 2020 at 3:55 PM
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My niece will be 9 years old turning 10 so I think she’ll be so happy being a bridesmaid. She feels too old to be a flower girl so I wanted her to have a special place in my wedding. Good point though!
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Hannah · on November 28, 2020 at 4:05 PM
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Ok yeah, that makes sense. I wasn't sure how old she was, but at 9-10 I don't think she'll feel left out lol.
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