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Liz
Just Said Yes October 2021

Co-moh-intimate Wedding

Liz, on November 25, 2020 at 11:24 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11
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Hey all!


Do you think it would be a bad decision to have my best friend and youngest sister to be my co-MOHs? My older younger sister will be officiating and my niece will be a bridesmaid. I want both my BFF and sister to be my MOH and I know that they each would love to be recognized as such.
The thing isI am having a very intimate wedding of about 30 of our closest friends and family members. Does that make a difference when deciding to have two MOHs?
I’m new to all this and I feel like I’m overthinking everything so please help me out.

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Latest activity by Hannah, on November 28, 2020 at 4:05 PM
  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
    Nicole ·
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    I don’t think the size of your wedding is of any consequence in this matter. If you want them to be co-MOHs, then ask them!
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  • Lisa
    Legend July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I don't think that's a bad idea at all! I say go for it!
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  • Soon2Bemarried
    Devoted September 2022
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    Agreed, two MOH’s are fine as long as you’re satisfied with them in those roles. People have uneven wedding party’s all the time, there’s nothing saying you can’t have multiple honor attendants.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Hhhmmm. I don't see any issue. Do your thing!
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  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    The size of the wedding doesn't matter. However, if you are having 2 co-MOHs and 1 bridesmaid, that bridesmaid may feel a little hurt. In that case, I would probably have 1 MOH or no MOH.
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Totally agree! Your wedding, your vision! It doesn’t matter on the size of the wedding! Go for it & stop overthinking this! Lol!
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Both my sister and my bestfriend are my MOH. We didn't have e a bridal party for our minimony but they will be for our big wedding
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  • Molly
    Super October 2020
    Molly ·
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    It has been done before. My friend had four co-MOH and 6 bridesmaids I know a bit much. But I have seen it done before.
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  • Melissa
    Just Said Yes February 2021
    Melissa ·
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    That’s exactly what I did. My BFF and my big sis are my matrons of honor. I was one of two MOHs in each of their weddings. It’s not uncommon. Our wedding will be 25 people including the wedding party.
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  • Liz
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Liz ·
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    My niece will be 9 years old turning 10 so I think she’ll be so happy being a bridesmaid. She feels too old to be a flower girl so I wanted her to have a special place in my wedding. Good point though!
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Ok yeah, that makes sense. I wasn't sure how old she was, but at 9-10 I don't think she'll feel left out lol.
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