Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We’re getting married in August and STD/Change the Dates were sent out last year. Haven’t sent invites yet but emailed everyone telling them to book travel since Tahoe is already getting super busy...

I know this topic has been talked about a lot on here and other forums but they are pretty old threads so I thought I'd start fresh. My fiancé (well I guess now he's my husband) eloped in our local...

I’ll be a BM in one of my best friends wedding in November . My BF and I have been dating for over a year. We started dating right before COVID quarantines so he’s only met my friend and her fiancé a...

Hi everyone. I’m not a mom so I want to make sure I do this right so I don’t upset any of the parents. Besides the flower girls and the ring bearers, and my nephew, I’m trying to avoid kids at the...

My parents have a lot of friends who were invited to my sister’s wedding in 2019. Ideally I would like to include them in my own wedding in 2022, but I have a lot of my own friends to invite (more...

Hi everyone, what is proper etiquette for when to send thank you notes for wedding gifts received before the wedding? We've received a few and we are still months before the wedding. I'm planning to...

I’ve decided to have one MOH and 2 bridesmaids, but my fiancée isn’t too close to many of his friends, so we’re struggling to come up with 3 groomsmen for him. We’re thinking of his best friend being...

Hi all, I am a new MOH for my friend's wedding. She has said that she wants to do a few fun things for a bachelorette party and I am working to make most of the event as cheap as possible for each...

My fiancé and I have both expressed interest in a threesome with another woman. We've never acted on the desire mostly because of my insecurities. I would have a threesome in a heartbeat if it was a...

HELP! So my MOH dropped a bomb on me last month. She tells me via text that she is about four months pregnant and her due date is about two weeks after my wedding. At the time I didn't fully...

So I guess this is mainly my fault, but between my fiancé and I we had approximately 140 guests to invite together. Overtime my mother, Aunt and father would little by little asked me to send...

Hey everyone. My fiancé and I are getting married in September and have lived together for 5 yrs. We are filling out a registry but there isn’t much that we need. I think it can be tacky when people...

I'm getting married next July, and am working on gathering addresses for my save the date notices. My father has a rather large family, and my parents are taking the stance that if you invite one...

My daughter is getting married June 12, 2021. It's already been postponed twice (third times a charm!) due to Covid. I am paying for the event, I'm divorced from her father and he is not helping...

I plan on doing programs. If I do then I need someone handing them out as people arrive. I was thinking of asking my cousins to do this. Are you supposed to get them a gift like you do for your...

We are having a light reception after our wedding with some appetizers and such, but nothing fancy. We are looking at ways to cut down on the price and I was thinking we might just not serve alcohol...

First off let me start by saying, I am not one to ask for help. I was raised by a single mother with absolutely no help (not a penny) from my deadbeat father. She grew her career into an empire that I...

I’m getting married 4.22.22. I just prepared my bridesmaid proposal baskets to give out. I was hesitant to create one for my SIL because I knew they were trying to get pregnant. My brother is actually...

How are you figuring this out? It is such a hot topic that many do not agree on. One school of thought among many: it is disrespectful to ask someone to celebrate your relationship while not...

So background - When we got engaged initially, we planned to get our save the dates and wedding invitations from The Minted. So naturally, I created a wedding website through Minted. It isn't my...