Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi everyone. How would you advise to deal with older guests who have shared our wedding information on their social media and group chats without our consent? We have addressed our Save The Dates and...

I have a friend that I used to be very close with and I just found out she is not inviting me to her wedding in October. We met during college and were good friends for a year or two. We lived over an...

I will preface this in that I know it is in bad taste to uninvite a guest. Our STDs went out last year, then we postponed a year due to Covid. My FHs friend's wife is a hardcore conspiracy person. Her...

Hi everyone, I was wondering if there are woman here who's husband has been previously married. I'm currently in an emotional rollercoaster (as some have might red in my other topic) but I feel that...

When are you planning to give bridesmaid gifts? Day of or at the rehearsal? The gift includes getting ready pajamas & slippers for day of. I have other items too because that’s more a gift for me...

I am planning a wedding and was trying to complete the guest list. Originally, it was going to be a small, intimate wedding with maybe 40 people but now my fiancé wants to invite twice as many so now...

Do I have to do a separate insert for the wedding website or is it ok to put on the invite. Everyone is computer savvy. Online RSVP and details all there.,,, Or can i Add a line to the invite: Kindly...

Hi, does anyone have any advice? BACKSTORY (I apologize for the length, but I feel like the context is important. If you don’t want to read all that, I completely understand): Leah, a pseudonym for...

My situation may be a little unique. My husband is American, I'm not. We live in a Middle Eastern country and are planning to fly out to my husband's hometown to host a reception (depending on the how...

Hi ladies! Does anyone know what the proper etiquette is for addressing priest on invitations???? It is Father ___________ or The Reverend ___________ or The Reverend Father __________ Ty in advanced!...

My fiancé and I are planning on having a smaller wedding with about 45-50 people including immediate family (grandparents, parents and siblings) as well as a larger wedding party and their significant...

We are getting married in a year and have not yet sent invitations. One of my husband’s former colleagues (who he used to be best-ish friends with) lives on the other side of the country. He is...

Hello! I want to make my bridesmaids a proposal box but I’m not sure what to put in it. Help?!

Have you attended a wedding to where the bride & groom didn't greet or even say hi or a thank you to their guests?? I find this rude and have recently experienced multiple weddings to where this...

So... I’m having an issue with one of my friends for the wedding. Pre-covid times (feels like ages ago) when my FH and I knew we wanted to get married we set the date for November 2020. That one...

Hi everyone! I have been planning an intimate destination wedding (40 people) for the past six months and invites went out recently. The deadline to RSVP is approaching and one of my bridesmaids still...

I'm going to preface this by saying I've only been to 3 weddings in my life and have never been a bridesmaid so I'm a bit hazy on all of the traditions and etiquette involved. When it came time to...

Hey guys so I made one of my best friends my maid of honor, and I'm just really started to regret it. She is not making a single effort to help me, never has time when I ask her to hang out to plan...

Hi! I just got my final estimate for my wedding next month. We're expecting a total of 48 guests and the venue is charging about $700 just for the champagne. Is this reasonable? Do I have to...