I will preface this in that I know it is in bad taste to uninvite a guest. Our STDs went out last year, then we postponed a year due to Covid.
My FHs friend's wife is a hardcore conspiracy person. Her husband entertains it to a degree, but I've known him for years and know he can be a normal person. She is the kind of person who doesnt know how or when to stop. I'll entertain political debates on social media if everyone is respectful, but I have come to FB to find 20 comments all from her on a post. An old friend she doesnt know was arguing and gave up. She followed him into his DMs and kept going. He had to block her. Another time, she told me she hopes I lose any future baby because I'm pro-choice. I blocked her after that and had a discussion with FH.
I was also worried about her making snide remarks at the wedding about my black friends or my brother's interracial relationship. (She's use the N word without remorse racist). The last thing I need is a scene made by Crazy Pants that ruins our day.
At first, FH agreed she should be uninvited, but still wanted to invite his friend/her husband. I'd rather univite both as a social unit, but I agreed. Now, FH is dragging his feet and coming up with excuses. I offered to talk to his friend but he said he would do it. We order our invites next month, so if he doesnt tell them, they'll find out with no invitation.
Am I wrong to uninvite this woman? Should we uninvite both? Just the husband? What is the best way to go about this? Or should I have to cave and possibly have a scene made on our wedding day?
Thanks everyone for listening and for the advice in advance!
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