Discussions I've participated in

July 18 2020- Do you think its all going to be ok by then?

One of my bridesmaid's SO is a registered sex offender. The offense happened over 10 years ago, but it still makes me uneasy. They have been a couple for two years and live together so it is a serious...

Our 2019 was definitely insane (in a good way) - the bulk of the wedding planning happened then, along with the actual wedding, which feels like it was very far away. 2x weeks after our wedding, we...

What creative options are you using for a unity ceremony? I don’t want the traditional candle lighting, knot tying/braiding, sand pouring.... I want something different. Help a girl out!

Has anyone used their Cricut to make invitations and envelopes? Is it cheaper than going through a printing company? I realize it’s definitely more time consuming but we have a good amount of time...

Just curious if anyone else is doing something "tacky" or "taboo" at their wedding. This is my second wedding - my first husband lost his 3 year battle with brain cancer - and although I wouldn't have...

Hey Ladies. So FH and I found the perfect venue, but the only hiccup is that we can't bring our own liquor in. We already purchased a beverage package for $1595 and that's just for regular...

My FH and I are planning on December 1st, 2020 as our date. This is our anniversary date, so it's a pretty special date. My FMIL and I use to get among great but lately it seems rocky. She's said...

By all means, I don't want to turn into a bridezilla so I haven't given really strict instructions to anyone. Anytime I make a decision I double check with my fiance, my bridal party, friends who are...

Two nights ago, I went to dinner with my sister and her husband. They just found out that my brother-in-law is being deployed in March 2020 until January 2021 (our wedding is May 2020). I could tell...

My first thing I got out the way was venue. I knew if I got it booked things would flow on my list. Next I'll be purchasing my bridesmaids proposals. What is the the first thing you bought for your...

Are you doing anything special for kids invited to your wedding? Do you have kids of your own?

My fiancé and I are Mil to Mil. I know there’s a military discount for almost everything. Anyone know of any when it comes to vendors and such?

My husband and I decided we didn’t want children under a certain age at our vow renewal. What’s the best way to articulate this request in the invitation?

Did you ladies decide what song you are walking down the aisle to on your own, or did your fh and you decide together ? If you decided on your own , are you surprising him with it or does he know the...

Ok, I have to know - what's everyone's first dance song?? Would love to see what everyone else is choosing. I feel like it's one of the most important details!

This is going to sound a bit awful and ungrateful, but how have any of you handled friends, family, etc, offering unwanted assistance and/or services for your wedding? I have two examples: One member...

I’m 15 days out, final counts and payment due today. I’ve been trying to get a hold of my godson/usher. He’s not a man of many words and lives in Texas ( I’m NJ). He works with his dad in their own...