Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

When I'm around a lot of cigarette smoke I get really sick. I'll get bad migraines and feel sick to my stomach. We are having the ceremony outside and the reception in an enclosed tent in our...

Hello! I’m getting married in June and have been working on getting the thank you gifts prepared for our wedding party and families. I had figured, based on previous weddings I’ve attended, that we’d...

I was chatting with a friend of mine the other day; she is a newlywed. She mentioned that for the 6 months leading up to the wedding, her and her husband did not have sex. She said they wanted to...

I want fiance to commit to having sex with me a certain amount of times a week in our vows, would you consider this bad taste? It is really important to me because he has a lower sex drive than me...

I have a bridesmaid that is going through a hard time in her life. I asked her to be in the wedding, and she was very excited but since then hasn't responded really to anything the other bridesmaids...

I am seeking advice on a situation with my videographer. We got married 11 months ago and are just now receiving “bits and pieces” of our wedding video. That was after essentially being ghosted up...

“I just want to say upfront—I’m a really anxious person, so I honestly don’t know if I’m overthinking this, but it’s been weighing on me. My fiancé and I are the first in both our families to get...

I'll be a guest at a cousin 's wedding. We have a family member who is constantly making ignorant racist comments, and spreading conspiracy theories, and generally sounds hateful and unhinged. I feel...

It's very important to my FH that in our vows I promise to love and obey him. I have been on the fence about this for months. It doesn't seem like it should be that big of a deal, but I'm just not...

Im struggling trying to come up with a thoughtful gift to give my parents and future in laws at our rehearsal dinner. I like the idea of the gift coming from both me and my fiance instead of doing...

I'm hoping this post doesn't result in negativity though I know I run the risk of attacks here. The title may make me sound greedy, superficial and ungrateful but I promise I'm not. I'm incredibly...

I found a venue that is also a hotel- almost all of our guests are going to be coming from out of town. If we book this venue (the rooms are included in the cost) how do we navigate giving the rooms...

I'm having a small, simple and fun summer wedding outside in the parking lot where my guy works. It's my first wedding at the ripe ol age of 59. Nothing we have planned so far is traditional by any...

Hey all, so long story short my father died when I was 11. This has been so hard while wedding planning since my FH talks about his Mother son dance and stuff like that. I don't have any close uncles,...

We were invited to a family members wedding and kids are invited. But here is the thing while my husband, me and our two other kids are invited we were told our 4 month was not invited. I understand...

I've never liked the idea of a fake send off but we will be staying pretty late partying and I want my older family members to be part of the send off. So I was thinking of having a send off around...

Hello! So we are finally getting our invite list set in stone. We are only extending plus ones to guests who are currently in known relationships (dating for several months or longer or married, etc.)...

So my fiancé has two sisters, one of which got married last year. There was big drama in their family because the sister getting married did not include the other sister in her bridesmaids, but...

Hi- So I need help on how to approach a situation with my wedding photographer. We got married 9/18/2021 & she told us 6-9 weeks for our photos to get back to us, the contract says 9 weeks. Her...