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Melissa
Super June 2018

Charger plates at buffet reception?

Melissa, on September 30, 2017 at 4:06 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 16

Happy Saturday everyone! We bought 130 gold beaded chargers off another bride for 100$ because it was such a good deal and knew we could sell them if we decided against using them.

I know they are usually for more formal plated dinners, but we are likely having a buffet. What are your thoughts on having charger plates at a buffet reception?

Our table set up will be similar to the photo below.


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Latest activity by La Juana, on April 26, 2025 at 10:47 AM
  • Emily
    Dedicated December 2017
    Emily ·
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    I'm having a buffet reception and like you will be using gold chargers . Nothing wrong with that . Ours will look like this:


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  • Light Haired Girl
    Expert February 2018
    Light Haired Girl ·
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    I could see guests trying to use them as their actual plate.

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  • Melissa
    Expert October 2018
    Melissa ·
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    I agree I'd worry people would think they need to take it to the buffett as their plate.

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  • Jamie
    Devoted August 2018
    Jamie ·
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    Oh I am totally having gold chargers on my tables, and having a buffet. I love they way they look, they really complete a table setting. A small announcement of clean dinner plates are provided at the buffett table is all that needs to be said to mitigate the charger/plate confusion (for those who don't know lol).

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  • FutureMrsBurroughs
    VIP October 2017
    FutureMrsBurroughs ·
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    I say go for it! This is one thing that FW said no to for our wedding. I wanted them but she felt like it was a waste of money. We are having a buffet also. I vote YES to chargers!

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  • Cara
    Savvy January 2018
    Cara ·
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    We're doing chargers and buffet !

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  • Danielle
    VIP December 2017
    Danielle ·
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    I'd be afraid people would up and walk with them to the buffet. If the amount of guests who don't know how to send in an RSVP or not to write in uninvited guests is any indication, I'm guessing most people aren't schooled in the finer points of dining etiquette or in Sandra Lee-esque tablescapes.

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  • Erin
    Super October 2018
    Erin ·
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    I'm having gold chargers and a buffet. I don't think guest taking the chargers with them to the buffet will be the end of the world and they will probably realize the plates are there to use.

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  • Willie
    Just Said Yes October 2017
    Willie ·
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    Do the set up and still do your Buffet

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  • Melissa
    Super June 2018
    Melissa ·
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    Thanks everyone!

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  • MoreMoore
    VIP November 2017
    MoreMoore ·
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    Funny story. My friend did this at her wedding and one person brought theirs up with them. It set off a chain reaction of people leaving the buffet line to go grab their chargers. I was cracking up, but then started questioning it myself and started to head back to the table. Just about that time the dj made an announcement not to bring your chargers. By this point there were probably 30 people eating right off the chargers.

    So in retrospect it was that people really didn't know. People do what they see others doing. Have your dj make an announcement promptly if you see anyone bringing theirs. Maybe have someone as a lookout for this to give him a signal.

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  • Ashley
    Expert November 2018
    Ashley ·
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    @MoreMoore, I could totally see my crew doing that, and it would crack me up!!

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  • LadyWatson
    Super October 2017
    LadyWatson ·
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    I’m also having a buffet (brunch) we bought charger plates! They definitely complete the look.

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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    They look nice! I like it.

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  • S
    Just Said Yes February 2024
    Sherry ·
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    I don’t this there’s anything wrong with that at all. I’m sure people will realize it by the time they get to the buffet line or someone will tell them.


    Can I ask where you bought it from? I’m looking for mine and it’s all so expensive I need to buy a bulk.
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  • La Juana
    Just Said Yes September 2023
    La Juana ·
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    I think it will be beautiful, do what you like, designers came up with what they thought was appropriate, you have likes and dislikes also, a lot of designer ideas aren't all pretty either. Do what you like
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