I have a bridesmaid that is going through a hard time in her life. I asked her to be in the wedding, and she was very excited but since then hasn't responded really to anything the other bridesmaids have had communication on. I have spoken with her several times about how important it is for me to have her involved and she keeps saying she will get in touch with them and it never happens.
They have planned my entire bachelorette party including footing her portion of the planning/down payments, and she still hasn't gotten back to them. My MOH is visibly frustrated, and more upset because she feels this bridesmaid is disrespecting me by not being active in the process. I don't want to take her out of the wedding, but it's becoming a headache and honestly I feel hurt that she hasn't gotten on board. Am I being unreasonable? I'm worried if I tell her she can't be in the wedding anymore, that it will counter all the good she's done to get back on track.
Help!
