Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So originally I didn’t mind the idea of having kids at our wedding - possibly unpopular opinion but I think it’s a fun addition to have kids running and dancing around! We addressed save the dates...

I've read some books/website that say it is up to the bride/groom to pay for the dresses/tuxes of the wedding party, but other sources say it's up to each individual to pay for their own attire ... I...

Hi All. So I want to have a simple bachelorette at a winery including my closest friends. The thing is that I know my future sister in law will be offended if she’s not invited. I really like her so...

I'm a little frustrated. Our shower is this Saturday and we just had an aunt that is coming to the wedding ask what our current address is because she wanted to send a gift. I told her our registries...

Should I wait to unfriend the bride before or after the wedding? I’m the maid of honor for my best friend of 10 years. The wedding is in 6 months. Super quick engagement and even quicker wedding...

Hi, ladies. My FH will be making vows to my 8 yr old daughter(his stepdaughter), but we are having a hard time trying to find examles of wording to work with. These two are very close, as we have been...

What is everyone using to carry all their stuff in on the day of the wedding (if anything) ? I am thinking that I will want a small clutch or something to carry my phone, makeup for touch ups, wallet...

Hey everyone, Bride-to-be here. My wedding is next month (March 26th, 2022). Long story short, my fiancé & I previously postponed our wedding twice due to Covid. Plus, for months I have made it...

I got engaged last summer. My fiance's brother got engaged to his gf 2 months after. My FMIL has decided to plan a 'combined bridal shower' for the 2 of us girls. It will be in April ... my wedding is...

Hello! We having a destination wedding in Savannah, Ga. Initially I wanted to do welcome bags and we had three suggested hotels. As time has passed, guests are coming in various days leading to the...

If I include a wedding website URL card with the invitation, should I also include a “details” card? Our wedding website has all of our details on it, so I’m not sure if this would be necessary.

I just started getting RSVPs for my wedding, and I was super excited...until I opened one from my married friends. Long story short, they're raising their niece, who is in elementary school, and they...

Here's the deets: We had our wedding on October 17th 2020 the photographer said that it would be about 8 weeks for the photos since they were really busy (Contract says up to 6 weeks, but what is...

One of my FH's groomsmen bought a few gifts off of our registry shortly after confirming to us that he had received the invitation to our couples shower that is happening next week. It seems he had...

I’m in the process of hiring a brass band to play at my wedding. They are doing a New Orleans second line for a half an hour. I just received my contract, that asked if they can eat and drink alcohol....

Hey y'all!! I hired a wedding planner that provides their own vendors. They are only handling the ceremony since we aren't doing much of a reception. Do I need to set aside money to tip the vendors...

Advice welcome but mostly needing support. We've been planning the wedding for a while and I thought doing a good job of keeping people informed. Clearly that has not been the case as it seems like...