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Just Said Yes May 2022

Received early shower gift, but not planning a shower

Sara, on March 3, 2022 at 1:55 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 4

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I received a gift on my registry, with a note that says it is an early shower gift. The only problem is, I wasn’t planning to have a shower. Nobody offered to host one, which is fine by me. I’ve never been a huge fan of bridal showers, and none of my bridesmaids are local so I wouldn’t expect them to try to host long distance. What do I do with this gift?
Should I just have a shower? My wedding is out of state and I’ve had some people mention it would be a good chance for people who won’t travel to the wedding to celebrate with me. I’m not against it, but still have no host…

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Latest activity by Sarah, on March 3, 2022 at 2:49 PM

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JA · on March 3, 2022 at 2:15 PM
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Definitely don't let one gift convince you to have a shower. Obviously if you want one, then go for it! Otherwise I would send a thank you note and include something like "We aren't having a Bridal Shower, but you sending me a gift is so kind and thoughtful and makes me feel loved! We can't wait to celebrate with you at the wedding!"
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Michelle · on March 3, 2022 at 2:19 PM
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Graciously accept the gift with a prompt thank you note. You are not obligated to have a shower but it’s likely that someone in your social circle, even coworkers, will host something for you. Graciously accept when they do.

You don’t say anything about a shower to the gift giver.
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Candace · on March 3, 2022 at 2:19 PM
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I don't think you need to have a shower if you don't want one. If people send you a gift just say thank you! No need to tell people you're not having one.
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Sarah · on March 3, 2022 at 2:49 PM
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Just send a thank you note for the gift. Don’t mention anything about a shower.
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