Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My fiance & I booked our dream venue for our wedding right away once we got engaged. However, now that we've made our guest list, we've realized that 300 people is too many to fit table seating for...

So, I have 11 months before our wedding and I'm trying to figure out our invites. Wedding is 100 people or less, dress casual, and only close friends and family. But we're on a tight budget and can't...

I've got a few family members...3 to be exact...that have really been giving me issues and yesterday really pulled a nasty stunt on me and I don't want them at my wedding. It was borderline that I...

A couple months after my fiancé and I got engaged, my friend announced that he and his fiancé are engaged. I’m so excited for them both! His fiancé wasn’t able to attend our engagement party because...

My father is very sick and disabled and due to all the stress of moving him, he wont be able to come to my wedding. People have suggested a video chat, but he can not talk nor comprehend things well,...

My best friend is getting married almost a month after me. I’m starting to feel overwhelmed with the cost of not just my wedding but hers as well. I know that it cost money to be in someone’s wedding...

So apparently this bride to be created a TikTok video (see link below) outlining the rules to attending her wedding, and it has instantly gone viral. Curious what everyone’s thoughts are on the...

If you are left handed (I am) do you ever find that your rings get in the way? I'm strongly considering switching and wearing them on my right hand as I don't think there is any rule that I have to...

I would like to invite my boss to my wedding but I work in a small lab (3 people total) and I don't want her to tell my coworker about the invite. I'm never a fan of making other people feel bad but I...

Formal invitations are often addressed from the parents of the bride. Does the Save the Date follow in the same way? Should my parents send the save the dates out on our behalf? All these little...

My fiancé and I are getting married on New Years Eve 2022. When should we send out save the dates?

I would like to be able to invite kids to my wedding and would love to have them participate in the ceremony and the reception. However, some of them are very young and rowdy, and I don't want their...

My friend is having a destination wedding in a foreign country. I will be attending the wedding and reception (I am not a bridesmaid, in case that matters for the answer), but think I would rather...

Has anyone had to cut bridesmaids ? If so, how did you do it? Originally my fiance and I had 5 groomsmen and bridesmaids each. Now my fiance only has 1 groomsman due to Covid and other restraints....

Hello! I really am not sure how this will plan out. I have a flower girl whom is about 2, and a ring bearer who’s about 20. I don’t really know other kids, or adult for a flower girl, and the ring...

Okay so I am worried this is borderline invasive to ask my MOH so I am asking you guys thoughts. I want to ask my MOH if she plans on getting pregnant around the time of the wedding. I know, sounds...

We’ve set a date and started the process. Growing up I’ve never been the type to imagine my wedding . Now that I’m here the more and more we do I no longer want a wedding. I realized I only want a...

I need some advice on how to let guests know and/or how to word that no children under the age of either 8 will be allowed to attend the wedding, aside from those that are apart of the wedding party,...

My husbands daughter is getting married. very small ceremony with immediate family followed by a reception. My husband and I have taken over the planning to pay for everything, even though her mother...

We are having our wedding in Park City, UT. The ceremony is taking place at the top of the resort easily accessed by car 11 miles from the suggested hotel or just 5 miles if they stay in town. The...