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Jennifer L
Alternative to Dollar Dance
Jennifer L, on September 24, 2012 at 2:18 PM

So I do not want to have a dollar dance and my future MIL and mother are against having a Honeymoon Fund jar at our reception. Any other ideas on how to earn some extra cash for our trip?

Lisa, Sep 24, 2012 27 1,306
mRzCuTrEr
Covering Tattoo's
mRzCuTrEr, on September 24, 2012 at 11:04 AM

A few of my bridesmaids have really huge obnoxious tattoos, and I really want to ask them to cover them. I will also be covering mine. Is this too much to ask? I am willing to pay for the tattoo...

Desarae, Sep 24, 2012 25 3,395
alwaysacountrygirl
How long did you wait to get engaged?
alwaysacountrygirl, on September 7, 2012 at 3:10 PM

Let's here the stories!! I'm not, yet, because we haven't been together very long, but I am a FIRM believer in "when you know you know".

FutureMrsB (Aussie B, Sep 21, 2012 97 4,675
Amelia
Flow of a Reception
Amelia, on September 20, 2012 at 6:50 PM

What is the common schedule of events for a wedding reception? I'm getting married on the beach. After the ceremony we are having 1 hour of cocktails on the beach while we take pictures. Then everyone...

Carlos Molina, Sep 20, 2012 5 114
Tara
Wedding Thank you Cards...HELP!!!
Tara, on September 17, 2012 at 9:10 PM

I want to know suggestions for thank you cards and where i should go. I was thinking about putting one of our pictures on the front of a the thank you cards but don't how that will come off to people...

Latisha M (Latisha B, Sep 20, 2012 13 645
I_Found_Mr_Wright
Our DJ Messed up Our First Dance AND Father/Daughter Dance!!!!
I_Found_Mr_Wright, on September 19, 2012 at 12:51 PM

So we hired a husband and wife team for our wedding. The wife did the photography and her husband was the DJ. They came HIGHLY recommended and even have endorsements thru "The Knot" and were voted...

I_Found_Mr_Wright, Sep 19, 2012 18 1,106
Darlene
I am wondering how much does it cost to perserve a wedding gown?
Darlene, on September 18, 2012 at 11:15 AM

I am debating if it is worth it and where would I go to get my gown perserved?

Andrene, Sep 18, 2012 15 1,970
Mika
Favors that don't suck?
Mika, on September 5, 2012 at 8:33 PM

Ok, frankly, I'm opposed to the whole idea of favors in the first place, because I think they're a waste of money that nobody will remember, and knowing our guests, I'm pretty sure they'd be much...

Jessica, Sep 18, 2012 55 2,836
Desiree
I dropped out of a wedding *vent*
Desiree, on September 17, 2012 at 10:44 AM

I never thought something like this would happen to me. I was a BM in a wedding this Friday (09/21). Her bachelorette party was this past Friday and I got way too drunk so my friend called my FH to...

Combay, Sep 18, 2012 28 323
Annie Adams
Weird Registry Requests?
Annie Adams, on September 17, 2012 at 7:47 PM

Hey ladies, My latest project (because it's too fun to ignore any longer) is the wedding registry! My FH was even REALLY helpful in getting it all started, making sure the things he would like are on...

Melanie, Sep 17, 2012 14 129
sdv
Is it okay to point guests to the gift table?
sdv, on September 17, 2012 at 5:49 PM

My venue is an old mansion and we're having the wedding in the garden beside the house. You get to the garden through a gate at the front/side of the house but our gift table is inside the foyer. Is...

Kathy, Sep 17, 2012 9 93
Victoria
A Backwards Wedding--Idea
Victoria, on September 17, 2012 at 3:57 PM

As far as I can see, everyone does their weddings in the following order: Ceremony Pictures Reception To be a little unique, I've thought up an ingenious plan to be special. The FH and I (plus the...

Spicydeene, Sep 17, 2012 19 1,160
Future Mrs. T
Bridal Shower gifts .. to use or not to use?
Future Mrs. T, on September 17, 2012 at 12:15 PM

The old superstition says don't use before the wedding incase the wedding falls through... anyone following this? Or did you go home and reorganize the entire house with all the new fun and updated...

WasSoon2BMrsSmith, Sep 17, 2012 15 716
smc0425
How far is too far? Hotel to reception
smc0425, on September 17, 2012 at 11:05 AM

I'm having sort of a destination wedding in the Catskills (NY). My finance and I live in NYC which is about a 3 hour drive and our families are traveling from Maine and Albany. We have about 10 people...

smc0425, Sep 17, 2012 7 954
Shannon
Mixing Fabrics for Bridesmaids Dresses?
Shannon, on September 17, 2012 at 12:08 AM

What is the opinion on mixing fabrics for bridesmaids dresses? I originally had all my girls in satin dresses that looked great on all their figures. After ordering the dresses and having them arrive,...

Shannon, Sep 17, 2012 14 2,339
Shawna
to tip or not to tip the florist??
Shawna, on September 15, 2012 at 11:19 AM

Did you? didn't you? If so, how much? Our flowers are coming to 1675, she is retired and does this as her own little business.... have at it

Groomzilla, Sep 17, 2012 18 4,049
Mayra
Can I go parasailing pregnant?
Mayra, on September 15, 2012 at 9:39 AM

One of the main things I want to do while on my honeymoon is go parasailing....But now that I'm pregnant I don't know if its safe or not...I don't have my dr.'s app till after we come back from the...

MJ, Sep 15, 2012 10 11,610
M
Best friend booked same wedding date
Michelle, on September 14, 2012 at 1:12 PM

What is the proper etiquette when one of your closest friends (a bridesmaid) books the same wedding date as you, in another city, months after you booked your date. She was told the date, but claims...

Mrs. S™, Sep 14, 2012 41 965
TheNewMrsT
Fiance is struggling with picking his groomsman....
TheNewMrsT, on September 13, 2012 at 9:24 AM

Ok ladies I need your thoughts on this one.... So my fiance and his brother rarely talk, and when they do they might as well be asking about the weather LOL. So now that we are planning our wedding...

WasSoon2BMrsSmith, Sep 13, 2012 14 231
Alexis
Invite Help: My dad and stepmom are getting divorced
Alexis, on September 12, 2012 at 12:01 PM

Hi! I'm about to send out Save The Dates to my May 2013 wedding and I just found out my dad and stepmom are getting a divorce. I did have about 30 of my stepmom's family invited to the wedding out of...

Blair, Sep 12, 2012 8 411
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