Covering Tattoo's

My sister who is a bridesmaid in my wedding has tattoos all over her chest and back...THANKFULLY she is going to get them spray tanned over a few times and it will cover up most of it

i think its not rude to ask that at all...they are your pictures, especially if you are covering yours up too

Thanks Natalie... I dont want to come off as a bridezilla!

I wouldn't ask them to cover up, they are your friends when you asked them to be your bridesmaids you knew they had the tattoos...

I dont think it's rude, but sometimes people get very testy when it comes to tattoos. There's a reason why they put in on their body: a symbol, a spiritual thing, regardless of what & why they got a tattoo, it's there for a reason: it's beautiful artwork on them. So just saying, not everyone thinks they should be covered. But it is your wedding, so it doesnt hurt to ask.

I would never ask my girls to change anything about themselves.

Haha not a bridezilla to me, im waiting to get my tattoo til after our wedding lol

i wouldnt mind just one tattoo, but my sister literally has 42 starts on her chest and back with some other random crap. and when i say crap i mean crap because i have no idea what really else is on there, its a terrible tattoo lol

I think if you're paying for it, it's not a big deal. While I have a tattoo, and love it, I wouldn't want it showing, and since you are covering yours, I don't think they can really complain. It's like asking someone to wear make-up and get their hair done for the day when they don't wear make-up and they don't ever do their hair.

But, I agree with Masquerade Bride that some people may get testy. You know your girls best, so you know how they'll react.

I don't think it's asking too much. I have asked my bridesmaids to cover their tattoos for this one day. I will be covering mine as well. I am a HUGE fan of body art, but I just don't feel it's appropriate in every situation. You’re not being a bridezilla if you ask in a polite way. It’s all about the approach. *You may not want to refer to their body art as “Obnoxious” though, when you ask* ;-)

@Ruishon definately... I have huge one's as well! Thanks!

I have to agree with Joanna's sentiments on this one. I don't think it's appropriate to ask them to cover their tattoos, even if you are covering your own.

I have covered many tattoos, for both the bride and the bridesmaids. Airbrush Makeup tends to hold longer than spray tanning. Spray tanning will actually make it darker in most cases.

When the bride is asking the attendants to cover them, usually the bride will pay for the service. When the attendants are being thoughtful and covering them up without it being requested by the bride, they tend to pay for the service.

Something else to keep in mind... photographers can photoshop the tattoos out of your pictures. They charge for their editing by the hour. As most brides are on a budget, if you pay for the tattoo cover up by a makeup artist you will be saving yourself money in the long run.

Honestly, I am a BM in my best friend's wedding and the first thing I asked her was if she wanted me to cover up my tattoos. She said absolutely not. But I wanted to at least offer and not put her in the awkward position of asking me to, because I understand not everyone likes tattoos or wants them visible in their wedding photos.

On the other hand, I am not covering up my tattoos for my own wedding, and when my mom asked if I would and I said no, she said "You know, not everyone likes tattoos" and I said "And that's why they shouldn't get them- I don't care if they like them, it's MY wedding and I want them showing because they're part of who I am" that ended the discussion real quick.

But, I would only get "testy" about my tattoos in that regard, because they're my wedding photos. But I don't understand people who get testy about it when it comes to other people's weddings. If my friend wanted me to cover them I would respect that and do it in a heartbeat.

I wouldnt have a problem with being asked to cover mine as long as the bride was paying for it

The reason I say people can get testy is cuz they are your BMs right? So you asked them cuz they're close to you, or whatever. You obviously like them enough for that. Usually you accept them as they are, tattoos, piercings, included. Personally if a friend asked me to cover up my 1 tattoo, which is very religious to me, I'd be a bit upset. I'd do it anyway, but to me it takes away from the fact that said friend love me, & accepts me, all except my tattoo. Just my thoughts

My MOH just got a very large piece. A sleeve in fact. it is gorgeous and a huge reflection of who she is. Before she got it done, she sat me down and asked me how I felt about it because she would either make sure it was finished before the wedding or not start it until after the wedding. I told her to go ahead because a. I trust her and know it will be an "enhancement" not "marring" and b. I got all my bms faux fur wraps for day of anyway

It's personal really. If you feel very strongly about it, ask them, they're your friends, they should understand.

I agree with Joanna. I'm not covering mine or requiring any of my BM's to cover theirs.

Totally understand where you are coming from, though.

How are their tattoos obnoxious?

I dont think asking someone to cover a tattoo has anything to do with the way you feel about them as a person or friend. Not everyone wants tattoos showing in their formal wedding picture and I would be completely fine if someone asked me to cover a tattoo (if I had one) for their wedding. Anyone who gets mad/upset is just being selfish, and they need to realize this ONE DAY is about the bride & groom, not them!! Cover the tattoo and move on

Furthermore, I think it's extremely considerate and thoughtful of a member of the bridal party to ask if the bride/groom wants their tattoo covered. This way, the bride/groom knows the person cares enough about making their day special to offer. If they do want it covered, it also makes the conversation a lot more comfortable and easy for everyone. I wish my girls would ask me! Ha

You have several options and remember that your friend won't be in every single picture taken. Some people feel pretty strongly about their tattoos so depending on your friendship you may not get the most positive response when you ask them to cover up. Options:

1. Tape - only comes in suntan color - http://www.tat2x.com/tattoo-cover-up-tat-skin.html

2. Make Up - requires some skill to apply it properly.

3. Ink Armor - only for arms and legs: http://www.tat2x.com/

4. Let them keep their ink and Photoshop it out later.

5. Sometimes a spray tan will cover lighter tattoos.

I'm requiring that all tattoos be covered for my wedding (and I'm providing the service). I don't see why anyone would be offended by you asking and I dont think its rude of you to ask. Its your (and FH) day and you have a preference. I dont think its a big deal for someone to cover a tattoo for a few hrs, especially if it'll make your day a little more perfect