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sdv
Dedicated July 2010

Is it okay to point guests to the gift table?

sdv, on September 17, 2012 at 5:49 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

My venue is an old mansion and we're having the wedding in the garden beside the house. You get to the garden through a gate at the front/side of the house but our gift table is inside the foyer. Is it polite to put a sign up that directs guests to it or should I just let word-of-mouth travel?

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Latest activity by Kathy, on September 17, 2012 at 8:02 PM
  • Jamie
    Super September 2012
    Jamie ·
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    Your venue sounds beautiful! Fingers crossed for nice weather!

    Will the guests be coming into the house for any other reason? Perhaps to use the restrooms? If so, chances are that they will see the table. I think it might seem a little forward to have a "gift table" sign. Just make certain you bridal party and any venue employees know where it is, since they are probably the first people guests will approach with questions.

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  • Jessica
    Master July 2012
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    I think it would be helpful to your guests, if it's not very obvious that's where the table is. I wouldn't want to hold your gift card or new toaster box through the ceremony. It's impolite to appear to be asking for gifts, but once they're at the ceremony I don't think it's "asking" for a gift as much as informing them where to put something. I'd consider it the same as a sign for coat check or something...

    Where are you putting your guest book? I had my guest book table and gift table next to each other... I figured that people would likely being doing both things before sitting for the ceremony.

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  • Private User
    VIP July 2013
    Private User ·
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    Put the gift table somewhere obvious that guests can't miss. Problem solved.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP September 2012
    Jennifer ·
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    I would say get a sign that points to different things like

    Reception that way

    Ceremony this way

    Gift table the other way

    Sign in Table down that way

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  • sdv
    Dedicated July 2010
    sdv ·
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    Thank you for all your answers! I will make sure the wedding party and staff know where it is. The table is in the foyer so the guests would pass it if checking coats, signing the guest book, or using the restroom. I think I will make a sign that says Ceremony this-a-way and Restroom, coat check, guest book that-a-way. Thanks all! :-)

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  • Lindsay
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    Lindsay ·
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    I agree with Jennifer. This way it is subtle.

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  • BunBuns
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    I agree with Jennifer! That sounds cute!

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  • Mrs. S™
    Master October 2011
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    Last time we were at a wedding with such setup, we just asked the staff. So I think you're OK without a sign. But will anyone keep an eye on it?

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  • Kathy
    Master July 2010
    Kathy ·
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    Since your guestbook will be near the gift table, you'll be fine. I would have someone at the guest book table, as well as the gift table, to make sure all is well. Also, your gift table person should have some tape, to make sure that cards are firmly attached to the gifts.

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