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L + A
Anyone heard of Card Avenue registry? Thoughts?
L + A, on July 22, 2014 at 5:46 PM

This is not for me, BTW! I have a good friend getting married in August and I got her invite, and she's registered at BBB (normal) and Card Avenue. I had to look it up because I had never heard of...

Jennifer & Barry, Jan 14, 2015 8 645
Melissa
Wedding dresses for the tall bride...?
Melissa, on January 13, 2015 at 6:22 PM

Hi ladies... I havent gone out dress shoping just yet but I wanted to see if I could get some suggestions before facing the problem I will have. Ya see.... I wasnt blessed to be average height.... I'm...

Melissa, Jan 14, 2015 15 1,642
J
Does his sister have to be a bridesmaid?
Jeanne, on January 13, 2015 at 12:45 AM

I get along with his family and love them, but I don't just go hang out over there. He is the oldest and their dad left when they were little, so he is more the father figure or picked up the role of...

Teryl, Jan 13, 2015 27 259
Nicole
Are Welcome Bags Necessary?
Nicole, on January 13, 2015 at 3:20 PM

We will be having a few out of town guests coming to the wedding. All of the out of town guests are family members and they will all be staying at either my or my FH's house before and after the...

Zoe, Jan 13, 2015 19 785
bina1015
Sending Save the Dates to the B List Guest?
bina1015, on January 12, 2015 at 12:42 PM

My FH and I are thinking of having two guest lists, an A & B list. Our venue has a min of 150 guest and that's all we can afford to pay for. We are going to send out our save the dates in a couple of...

Erin, Jan 13, 2015 45 5,119
J
Ring warming ceremony
J, on January 12, 2015 at 12:51 PM

FI and I have been asked by our officiant what we want to include in our ceremony. We are not overly religious and FI does not want to have readings. We stumbled upon the ring warming ceremony and...

Zoe, Jan 12, 2015 12 229
Elizabeth
Birth control to skip period
Elizabeth, on January 12, 2015 at 9:54 AM

Hey guys. So I have a couple period tracking apps on my phone and of course both of them are counting on me starting my period the day before my wedding. I want to avoid that at all costs and although...

AlexisM082, Jan 12, 2015 22 6,039
Kristyღ
No RSVP Cards?
Kristyღ, on January 11, 2015 at 6:26 PM

I'm thinking, call me crazy, to put on the bottom of my invites "rsvp online @ *wedding website*" to cut costs and headaches when counting RSVP's. From what I have heard, many guests don't even bother...

GoneAndMarried, Jan 12, 2015 32 1,337
WeAreOne0822
Ring Insurance...help a girl out!
WeAreOne0822, on January 11, 2015 at 1:55 PM

My fiancé didn't get this for my ring. I'm nervous one day the inevitable may happen. Is it too late to get ring insurance? Do you have it? Is this a difficult process or thing to get? What do you all...

AlexisM082, Jan 12, 2015 20 1,101
Cassie
Am I being the dreaded bridezilla?
Cassie, on January 11, 2015 at 1:45 PM

I got engaged last May and my wedding is coming this September. I picked out my bridal party easily, without stressing, sent them fun little "will you be my bridesmaid" boxes and they all said yes. I...

Alicia, Jan 11, 2015 24 267
Brandi
Excluding Kids from the Wedding Politely?
Brandi, on January 11, 2015 at 4:57 PM

Hi Brides! I don't want kids to attend my wedding and luckily for me I'm young and most of my friends don't have kids and those who do would welcome a night off from their children. However, some of...

karebear87, Jan 11, 2015 5 304
Stephanie
Candy Buffet/Cup cake table vs cake
Stephanie, on January 10, 2015 at 2:10 PM

Will it be tacky, cheap, etc if I choose to have a candy buffet bar with cupcakes and maybe macaroons as dessert vs having a wedding cake? Thoughts/suggestions on this? Also if ANYONE has any...

Margaret, Jan 10, 2015 16 237
Lauren
Heavy hors d'oeuvres & cocktails reception
Lauren, on January 10, 2015 at 11:45 AM

We are planning a destination wedding this coming NYE and were thinking of doing a hors d'oeuvres & cocktails reception rather than a sit-down meal due to budget and timing of the reception. It will...

...., Jan 10, 2015 7 233
L
Cake Cutting Song?
LetItSnow, on January 7, 2015 at 2:59 PM

My DJ asked for a cake cutting song....it never occurred to me to think of this! What is your cake cutting song?

Nicole, Jan 9, 2015 39 309
Michelle
Cocktail hour, wine during dinner, champagne toast then cash bar - Is this enough or rude
Michelle, on January 8, 2015 at 1:44 PM

Hello there! My fiance and I will be getting married this Feb. We have a total of 102 guests and are on a tight budget but still wanted to share our special day our families (they would love to see...

Elyse, Jan 8, 2015 51 450
Kristina
Addressing STD and invitation with nickname
Kristina, on January 8, 2015 at 1:42 PM

I will soon be sending save the dates and can't decide how to address certain people who are always addressed by a nickname. I think I've read etiquette requires a person's full name be used on...

Uber Dami, Jan 8, 2015 11 215
Laura
$200 bachelorette party with 2 days to RSVP... Is that normal?
Laura, on January 8, 2015 at 12:41 PM

One of my friends is getting married in April and is having her bachelorette party in March. Her MOH sent an email Sunday evening saying the party would be at a nearby city (30 min away) and would be...

kLo, Jan 8, 2015 28 299
L + A
KWR: Experiences in changing jobs within 6 months of the wedding?
L + A, on January 7, 2015 at 11:14 AM

Does anyone have any stories about how the process went? Do you find that a potential employer turned you down because of your time off you already need? Is it worth it? I ask because I received my...

alyshadanielle, Jan 8, 2015 15 2,506
The Polka Dot Queen ©
Sports Jersey Guestbook
The Polka Dot Queen ©, on January 28, 2012 at 5:41 PM

So someone else on here did this... had a custom jersey made for their guests to sign. I thought this was a grand idea, and would be great to surprise FH with a Maple Leafs jersey with Gilbert, 2...

Jennifer, Jan 7, 2015 4 215
Allison
getting a gift for the people throwing your bridal shower?
Allison, on January 7, 2015 at 11:40 AM

Apparently I'm in bridal shower mode. Are you supposed to get a gift for the person/people throwing your bridal shower? Did you? All of my bridal party is participating in the bridal shower for me,...

GoneAndMarried, Jan 7, 2015 15 12,930
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