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Postponed Bridal Shower
Laura, on January 25, 2016 at 10:43 AM

Due to the blizzard, we had to postpone my bridal shower until March. A few of our guest decided to send our gifts to our home... Can we open them and send thank you cards or do we just wait until...

Richard, Jan 25, 2016 3 206
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How Many People to Invite to Bachelorette Party?
Veronica, on January 24, 2016 at 11:05 PM

So I have my 4 core girls I will be inviting (my bridal party, basically), and I'm debating if I should invite other people. I'm debating about whether to invite my fiance's sisters, who I am friendly...

Veronica, Jan 25, 2016 18 6,143
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Mother in laws inappropriate dress
Private User, on January 23, 2016 at 4:17 PM

My mother in law will be wearing this gown in platinum silver. It has a 3 foot train. My fiance and I begged her not to get it and left the store in tears. She is 56 and a size 16. The store...

Private_User804, Jan 24, 2016 46 3,877
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Too many people in wedding party?
Megan, on January 24, 2016 at 9:09 PM

Is having 7 bridesmaids, 7 groomsmen, and 4 ushers too many people?

Spaz, Jan 24, 2016 16 83
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Lingering resentment
Al, on January 24, 2016 at 12:57 PM

I have some lingering resentment with a friend who got married in Sept. I was her maid of honor and her sister was matron of honor. In the process of all the planning I just felt like she was...

Richard, Jan 24, 2016 26 203
Sqwiggy
Working with a Sign Language interpreter
Sqwiggy, on January 24, 2016 at 12:50 PM

Two of our guest are deaf and use ASL. We are hiring an interpreter (she was my ASL teacher at the community college). Do the officiant and interpreter need to meet before hand? Does she need a...

NowASeptMrs, Jan 24, 2016 11 181
Robin
Church Wedding Ceremony followed by Sit Down Dinner Reception- HELP!
Robin, on January 24, 2016 at 3:32 AM

So my fiancé and I have decided to get married at our church and then have a formal sit down dinner for the reception. Both of my parents are deceased and my fiancé is not a big dancer so we weren't...

Robin, Jan 24, 2016 7 2,062
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Woman proposing to the man
Del, on January 23, 2016 at 12:09 PM

How do you guys feel about the girl proposing to the guy? Are there any girls here who actually proposed to their guys? If so, how was it received?

shlayne, Jan 24, 2016 62 218
Courtney
Carry a photo down the aisle?
Courtney, on January 23, 2016 at 4:15 PM

My grandfather passed away about a year ago and I had always wanted him to walk me down the aisle. He was like a father to me. Now the time has come for me to get married and he is no longer with us....

StitchingBride, Jan 24, 2016 17 1,792
FutureMrs.Moakley
Wedding Faux Pas?
FutureMrs.Moakley, on January 23, 2016 at 5:43 PM

So, I'm still laid up in bed due to my back and it got me thinking of the weddings I've been to in the past, and the things I was witness to that I didn't realize at the time were big no-no's. The...

Littlefoot, Jan 23, 2016 24 137
Deborah
Groom's Family Hates Me
Deborah, on June 9, 2015 at 9:06 AM

So my FH's family hates me. They refuse to be in the same room with me and he's not allowed to even talk about me. Why? Because we dated six years ago and I was very sick and couldn't work which made...

MrsPtoB, Jan 23, 2016 272 842
Alyssa
Rustic style with gold accents.
Alyssa, on January 23, 2016 at 4:39 PM

I am going for a rustic decor at our venue with a touch of gold for accent pieces. I'm thinking gold candles, gold card box, gold votive holders. What is everyone's thoughts on this? Will the two...

Littlefoot, Jan 23, 2016 11 82
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Living near in-laws
Nora, on January 22, 2016 at 8:54 PM

Me and my hubby were married last fall and found a really cute older home we were planning to purchase. I like everything about except I'm a little nervous that's it's in his hometown and around the...

Sept2017AKBride, Jan 23, 2016 10 1,256
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Anyone have a decline to a bridesmaid request?
LetItSnow, on December 2, 2013 at 2:11 PM

Have you asked someone to be in your bridal party and they declined? Were you offended? A friend of mine was recently asked to be in a bridal party of her other close friend and she 'politely' said...

Ana, Jan 22, 2016 39 5,992
CareBear
Mom Rose Ceremony
CareBear, on January 22, 2016 at 12:45 PM

Has anyone done this? I have seen it done once and I thought it was a very touching gesture. I know the mom's loved being acknowledged as well. If you did one, where did you place it in the ceremony? ...

Celia Milton, Jan 22, 2016 11 1,606
Martha
How to acknowledge mom who can't attend
Martha, on January 22, 2016 at 3:08 PM

My mom unfortunately won't be able to attend my wedding since she is bedridden. Thoughts on how to still have her included during the ceremony and reception. Thanks!

Original VC, Jan 22, 2016 10 1,658
Vanessa
HitchSwitch anyone?
Vanessa, on January 21, 2016 at 11:08 PM

I'm thinking of doing HitchSwitch to make my life easier because I have soooo many things I need to change regarding my last name. Anyone using it or already used it? Love it or a rip off? Thanks

SaraLep, Jan 22, 2016 14 419
Sarah
How many Bridesmaids is TOO MANY
Sarah, on January 19, 2016 at 1:05 PM

I have lived in 3 different cities, and acquired some amazing friends in each one. Our guest list is at 162 right now for a May 2017 wedding and I have 9 bridesmaids. Is that too many? My mother keeps...

mimitrue, Jan 22, 2016 69 916
Niki
Corsages/Bouts for Parents, who else?
Niki, on January 21, 2016 at 5:58 PM

We're having a small wedding party - only our MoH and Best Man, no bridesmaids or groomsmen. FH and I had planned on doing Bouts and corsages for our parents, and his grandparents (mine are deceased)....

L.R., Jan 22, 2016 18 135
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Gifts at a destination wedding
Adam, on January 22, 2016 at 1:26 AM

We were married in Las Vegas a little more than a week ago. We invited 50 guests and had a really classy and formal ceremony on the lake. It was definitely not the typical Elvis type Vegas wedding. My...

NowASeptMrs, Jan 22, 2016 15 443
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