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So is a bridal shower when you're already married tacky??
Private User, on January 29, 2016 at 2:04 AM

My mom and my sister (who is my maid of honor) are both throwing it for me. But I don't want anyone to think I just want gifts! They wanted to throw a lingerie shower.

Private User, Jan 29, 2016 20 4,144
MrsLaurenET
Choosing between Macy's and Crate & Barrel Registries?
MrsLaurenET, on January 28, 2016 at 11:29 AM

We are already planning on a BB&B registry since it's pretty universal and people love to use the coupons. However, kinda stuck on choosing between Macy's and Crate & Barrel for the second registry. I...

Sqwiggy, Jan 28, 2016 17 1,783
Rose
Black sheep of the familes
Rose, on January 28, 2016 at 2:47 PM

I need advice on how to handle not only my older brother but FH's brother as well. My brother currently is more or less estranged from my family as he has some issues and repeatedly tried to take them...

Mrs. TacoCat, Jan 28, 2016 4 62
Jillian
Destination Wedding Excursion Invitations
Jillian, on January 28, 2016 at 2:46 PM

Help! We are having a destination wedding and sent out STDs a long time ago. We are struggling with when to send the invitations because we are inviting everyone to join us on our catamaran excursion...

Glam0rous, Jan 28, 2016 7 95
Crystal345
Not Inviting Extended Family
Crystal345, on January 28, 2016 at 5:10 AM

I am getting married April 2017 and I have just recently started serious wedding planning. I.e. researching vendors and calculating budget and most importantly: guest list. I have found my dream...

Crystal345, Jan 28, 2016 10 4,365
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is it ok to register if you elope?
carolyn, on July 25, 2010 at 11:28 AM

We are eloping in the fall and will be sending out announcements right after to announce we are married and for a large reception following a few months later. We are wondering if it is ok to register...

natalie, Jan 28, 2016 26 7,205
FutureMrsLove
Save the Date Insert
FutureMrsLove, on January 28, 2016 at 1:11 PM

Hi Ladies! Question about save the dates: I have already ordered them and am working on getting them addressed but just decided a wedding website would be a good idea, would putting an insert in with...

FutureMrsLove, Jan 28, 2016 3 88
Future Mrs.P
Waffle House Catering
Future Mrs.P, on January 28, 2016 at 8:34 AM

My FH just texted me and said he wants Waffle House to cater our wedding. Why when I googled they actually do bring a truck out to cater events . The food options aren't wedding -dinner type foods....

Kelsey, Jan 28, 2016 24 439
MsM
Fine line between casual/laid back and tacky...
MsM, on January 26, 2016 at 7:06 PM

I've been on here for a few weeks talking about having a casual, most likely backyard, wedding. We haven't made any concrete plans yet, but I am less busy than usual right now, and I am brainstorming...

Cindy, Jan 27, 2016 18 2,521
OG Dianna
Not hearing back from wedding venue
OG Dianna, on January 27, 2016 at 11:17 AM

How long should I expect to hear back from a wedding venue I'm interested in? It's been almost two weeks. I'm trying to get a tour scheduled... I've emailed a couple of times and called the director...

Old married lady, Jan 27, 2016 16 693
FutureMrsHarris
Bridesmaid Problem
FutureMrsHarris, on January 26, 2016 at 8:06 PM

Let me start off by saying, yes I know I'm not getting married for another year and 3 months BUT I have asked my bridal party ONLY because all are family but one...the one that isn't family has been...

YucaFrita, Jan 27, 2016 33 1,321
JuneBride
The Knot is driving me nuts!! (Rant)
JuneBride, on January 26, 2016 at 11:59 PM

I so regret using the Knot for my wedding website. Unfortunately, it's too late now since the website is on our Save the Dates and invites. FH and I went to a couple stores last weekend to make a...

JuneBride, Jan 27, 2016 3 935
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Engagement Party -- Is it necessary?
Jillian, on January 26, 2016 at 4:14 AM

What is the purpose to the engagement party? Is it really necessary? I plan on having an intimate wedding (parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and first cousins). Can people who are not invited to...

LoLo.P, Jan 26, 2016 28 2,493
tabitha
MOB/MOG dress
tabitha, on January 26, 2016 at 2:07 PM

My FMIL is wanting to get her dress picked out for the wedding but said that my mom needs to get hers first so I'm trying to get the ball rolling for her. I'm not sure on the proper etiquette on what...

Michelle, Jan 26, 2016 15 265
Desiree
Application reviewed?
Desiree, on January 25, 2016 at 11:32 PM

NWR: I just applied for a job at a bank. I did the interview online last night. The status says "application reviewed". What would you interpret that as? Maybe I'm reading into it to much because I...

Desiree, Jan 26, 2016 6 58
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Is it rude not to invite my sister's boyfriend?
Amy, on January 25, 2016 at 7:30 PM

My sister and her boyfriend have been together over a year, and have a daughter together. Normally, I know this would be a no brainer, but FH and I have no desire to have this guy at our wedding. I...

Steven Davis, Jan 26, 2016 27 3,357
LINDSAY
You Can't Sit With Us (How to politely tell people they aren't invited...)
LINDSAY, on January 25, 2016 at 6:14 PM

I want to get a census on an idea regarding non-invitees for my wedding. FH & I decided to keep it small (and we're still at 75 guests as it is) so a lot of our fun casual friends and not so immediate...

AMW, Jan 26, 2016 28 191
Danielle
Gifts for wedding speaker?
Danielle , on January 25, 2016 at 3:20 PM

Hello, My fiancé and I are getting married in August and I'm a little lost on who we buy gifts for. We obviously know to buy for our parents, the wedding party and our ceremony musicians (friends...

Danielle, Jan 25, 2016 5 963
Mrs.
silk flowers = tacky?
Mrs., on October 31, 2012 at 11:06 AM

So i was finishing up some last min things yesterday for our wedding saturday and my friend came over and was helping me with a few things and said OHH your using all silk flowers??? and gave me this...

Sharon, Jan 25, 2016 36 3,102
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Addressing Invitations
Sarah, on October 22, 2008 at 6:59 AM

So my fiancee and I had planned on typing address labels for our invitations since we are mailing 200 invitations. I have recently been reading that this is inappropriate. Does anybody know if it...

Private User, Jan 25, 2016 16 507
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