I need advice on how to handle not only my older brother but FH's brother as well.
My brother currently is more or less estranged from my family as he has some issues and repeatedly tried to take them out on my mom specifically. I plan on inviting him just because he is my brother. I am terrified of him trying to start drama. He's a world class manipulator and will try to drag every other family member into the fight,
Now FH's brother is similar. He needs to be the focus of everything! When we annouced our engagement to FH's family, his first words were not congratulations but I am the best man. FH has already picked out his best man (hasn't ask him yet) and we've ask his brother to be a groomsman, but he said that he wanted to be best man or nothing else.
Both of our brothers love to cause drama and neither of them are in long term relationships with anyone so we didn't plan on giving them a plus one. So I just need advice on how best to handle it all,
