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Mrs. León
Why do some women turn it into a competition?
Mrs. León, on July 19, 2015 at 6:08 PM

For as long as I have known my friend she has been desperate to get married. She was engaged 2 years ago and it didn't work out. March of 2014 she started dating her now husband. My FH proposed to me...

Amanda, Feb 2, 2016 20 1,024 1
Christina
Carnations
Christina, on February 1, 2016 at 4:14 PM

I've heard that a lot of people dislike carnations at weddings. Why so? I think they're so gorgeous and I would want them in my wedding unless there's really some reason as to why they're hated so...

L.R., Feb 1, 2016 26 172
LATASHIA
Bridal Showers? Should I host my own?
LATASHIA, on January 31, 2016 at 10:45 PM

Hi Everyone, I needed some advise regarding should I host my own bridal shower considering I don't have a wedding party because we are getting married in a small ceremony on the beach with our 2...

LATASHIA, Feb 1, 2016 16 215
J
My mom told everyone first.
Jamiee, on January 30, 2016 at 9:21 PM

So me and my boyfriend had both agreed that we would be getting married, we picked a date and a place. All I need is a ring before I announce it to all my my friends and family (who expect we will...

I am Mrs. rjd, Feb 1, 2016 40 1,312
Patricia
Telling a vendor your going in another direction
Patricia, on January 11, 2016 at 4:44 PM

Hello all. Happy Monday! So as I read treads I notice a lot of people having trouble telling vendors they want to go with someone else. Now I wonder if I have left people hanging. I have contacted a...

Aaron DeMarest, Feb 1, 2016 14 1,597
Mrs. León
What is considered high resolution?
Mrs. León, on January 30, 2016 at 3:02 PM

My USB just arrived today with my high resolution wedding pictures. I don't know much about digital photography but I thought these would be better. Most images are around 2760x1840 which don't look...

Kathleen Smith, Jan 31, 2016 7 2,961
Mrswelch
Adults Only Wording?
Mrswelch, on January 30, 2016 at 3:50 PM

What are the suggestions for letting guests know that the wedding is adults only? I've heard definitely NOT on the invites, so word of mouth? Wedding website?

Mrs.High, Jan 30, 2016 19 1,483
Hannah
Pens?? How many pens for a guest book?
Hannah, on January 30, 2016 at 7:12 PM

Hi! We are having around 180 guests - how many pens do you suggest having? I really have no idea! Would 4 be enough? We are actually doing a quilt people can sign - so we made a quilt and will be...

Sara, Jan 30, 2016 4 2,171
Ashley
Did you call those who didn't RSVP?
Ashley, on January 30, 2016 at 1:29 PM

So I have less than a month for RSVPs to come back. My FH and I have differing opinions on if you're supposed to contact the guests who did not respond by the RSVP date. The WW checklist says you are...

NewMrsWesely, Jan 30, 2016 25 5,431
Kat
Torn between what i want, and what everyone else wants. Help!
Kat, on January 30, 2016 at 11:28 AM

I'm pretty deep into wedding planning, and I should be happy, but I am honestly miserable. My fiance and I want something small. Like 20 people or less, close family. His mother talked us into adding...

Kiwi Kawaii, Jan 30, 2016 27 1,023
R
Strolling Reception Feedback
Ranae, on January 30, 2016 at 1:40 AM

When I was younger I attended my cousin's wedding and her reception was held in a museum. Rather than a traditional sit down plated/buffet dinner, they had an open bar at one end of the room and...

Celia Milton, Jan 30, 2016 10 831
Becoming A Mrs!
Opinions on registering for china
Becoming A Mrs!, on January 29, 2016 at 6:23 PM

Did you guys put fine china on your registry? I don't want to, but FH does. Thoughts? ETA- You guys have convinced me to register for china! But how many place settings do I need? I don't want to go...

kahlcara, Jan 30, 2016 28 160
A
Informal, Not-hosted Rehearsal dinner?
April, on January 29, 2016 at 1:30 PM

FH and I are paying for our wedding mostly ourselves, with the exception of my parents paying for the catering. His family has said they cannot/will not contribute financially. That being said, with...

annakay511, Jan 30, 2016 27 1,146
nimzz
Will you be practicing your first wedding day kiss?
nimzz, on January 22, 2016 at 3:06 PM

As my wedding day approaches, I'm getting more nervous about the actual ceremony rather than the reception. The reception is where I'll let loose and have fun. But the ceremony is tricky because it...

nimzz, Jan 30, 2016 40 1,345
LoveInDC
Not close with my father. Help!!
LoveInDC, on January 29, 2016 at 4:17 PM

I am not close with my father (he and my mother are still together). He was very verbally and emotionally abusive to me throughout my childhood and I'm still suffering the aftermath from it. To this...

Old married lady, Jan 29, 2016 15 1,500 1
Future Firefighter's Wife
Multiple Family Weddings Close Together
Future Firefighter's Wife, on January 29, 2016 at 6:56 PM

I'm needing help with how to deal with some upset family members because of my engagement and wedding. Let me start that my fiance & I have been together for over 5 years. We got engaged last November...

Delisa, Jan 29, 2016 8 682
MeetTheHamiltons
Who's name goes first?
MeetTheHamiltons, on January 29, 2016 at 1:51 PM

I was planning on buying a return address stamp for the wedding but, I was wondering who's name goes first, or does it not matter?

Bee, Jan 29, 2016 13 1,600
P
Suspended cake, help! Need ideas
Pinkuin, on May 28, 2014 at 10:28 PM

Hey guys! So I am obsessed with a suspended cake display. Can you give me some ideas on how to hang this? My venue has wood beams going across the ceiling so I'd be hanging from that. This is the...

Eva Salazar, Jan 29, 2016 21 2,802
Future Mrs Harvey
Who comes to the bridal shower?
Future Mrs Harvey, on January 29, 2016 at 11:34 AM

Some of my bridesmaids have mentioned having a bridal shower for me. I saw on another thread that it's not supposed to be alot of ppl at the shower. Who is usually invited to the shower? I suspect...

Mrs. Winosaurusrex, Jan 29, 2016 11 1,316
Elizabeth
Party after "just us" wedding
Elizabeth, on January 28, 2016 at 6:16 PM

My FH and I decided last week to get married while on vacation at the beach in March. It will be us, my daughter, and a friend sharing expenses of the rental. Our budget is very limited so we thought...

Elizabeth, Jan 29, 2016 14 176
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