Who's name goes first?

FH told me my name should go first on everything because I'm the pretty one.

It doesn't matter, just go with what feels more natural.

Bride goes before groom before you are married, groom goes before bride after you are married!

That being said, it's totally fine to do either way

The bride usually. But most return stamps I've seen just say "the Lastnames."

Thanks ladies!!!

FH & I are just using our initials (C&P) for the return labels, as we're obviously not married yet. So it wouldn't make sense to me if it was 'the _______es', when I don't have his last name yet. Even after we get married, I think we'll just continue to use the 'C&P' thing whenever we send out stuff like holiday cards. Some people are big on how their return labels look, some aren't. If you and your FH want to use just his lame name on the labels, by all means go right ahead! :-)

Bride and then groom's name

I did ours alphabetically.

I always followed the "ladies first" rule. And now that we are married he is first.

Traditionally, the bride's for wedding-related stuff. However, since I think it's sexist to assume a wedding is automatically the brides' desire--and bc its FH who wants the wedding--we're putting his name first. We used our first names for our return stamp.

Your name goes first before you are married, and his name goes first after you are married (technically). On something like a return address stamp, I don't think it matters and you should just pick what sounds/looks best.

The bride goes first before the marraige, the groom after the marriage.

Ours say FH & Stacy and our address. Once we're married nad move i'll get a new one with "The Lastnames"

I also uses our return stamp for EVERYTHING not just wedding stuff

We have his first name and then mine. I just always liked his name first on everything. Our design layout happened to look best with his name first anyways.