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Theresa
I want to ask my stepdad to walk me down the aisle too
Theresa, on August 22, 2016 at 7:42 PM

So, my parents divorced when I was nine and now they're both remarried. My stepdad started dating my mom when I was 11. (Crazy thing is, my FH's parents are divorced and both remarried, big wedding!)...

Theresa, Aug 22, 2016 5 895
B
Private ceremony due to family illness
BCbride, on August 22, 2016 at 3:01 PM

Hello all. I am just looking for advice, my fiancé's parent is terminally ill and will not make it to our wedding planned for fall 2017. He would like to do a private ceremony for our immediate family...

Celia Milton, Aug 22, 2016 22 4,456 1
FutureRios
Plus Size Dress Shopping Anxiety
FutureRios, on August 19, 2016 at 2:41 PM

So I am going to two different places to try dresses on tomorrow (Saturday), so today I went to get some shapewear. I'm plus-sized and knew I would feel more confident with something to smoothe out my...

ThomKat18, Aug 22, 2016 25 1,552
ShakespeareBride
Flower Girl Ask
ShakespeareBride, on August 5, 2016 at 7:53 AM

So I know a few of you lovely ladies are not fans of the idea of asking bridesmaids to be bridesmaids in big ways with gifts etc. However how do you feel about Flower Girls? My best friend since we...

Irene, Aug 22, 2016 22 145
Chip
Cake and Punch reception
Chip, on August 22, 2016 at 11:13 AM

Hey all, I've never been to one, so what all goes into a cake and punch reception? (besides, obviously, the cake and punch) Are apps and other food expected? it'll probably be about 3pm I'm asking...

Almost Mrs. Wright, Aug 22, 2016 35 234
Trixie325
What was your FAVORITE bridesmaid gift you received?
Trixie325, on January 27, 2016 at 2:19 PM

Looking to do something original for my wonderful BMs and MOH

Maria, Aug 22, 2016 31 3,705
Nini
Rings
Nini, on August 20, 2016 at 12:05 PM

So I'm just curious on ring etiquette. I was under the assumption that when you get engaged you wear your engagement on your left ring finger, and when you tie the knot, your FH places a band on your...

Zoe, Aug 21, 2016 23 370
Elizabeth
Presents for Parents?
Elizabeth, on June 14, 2012 at 12:43 PM

I didn't know that the bride and groom usually buy their parents gifts! Is this traditional? FH & I had never heard of it. Is it usually done as a thank you for paying for the wedding? We are paying...

Laurie, Aug 21, 2016 20 8,723
Emily Ann
Calm 12 days before wedding - is that weird?
Emily Ann, on August 21, 2016 at 10:58 AM

I am 12 days away from our wedding and I am completely calm. I mean I'm stressed about planning the final details, but in terms of the wedding I'm totally calm and excited for it and the honeymoon. Is...

Future Mrs., Aug 21, 2016 6 68
Megan&Jess
What to call the "groomsmen"
Megan&Jess, on August 20, 2016 at 4:26 AM

So while planning and talking about my wedding it feels weird to keep saying "groomsmen" since I am marrying a woman, there is no groom. I feel like it's validating the fact that so many people say...

Megan&Jess, Aug 20, 2016 12 1,918
Samantha
My Wedding Day Reflection
Samantha, on August 20, 2016 at 4:29 PM

For any of those other brides who suffer from severe anxiety, I wrote a blog post reflecting on the planning process from the perspective of a wife. I hope some of you find it helpful--and maybe even...

Samantha, Aug 20, 2016 200
C
Venue "Mistake"
Christina, on August 20, 2016 at 1:31 PM

Has anyone ever gotten married at the Inn at New Hyde Park in New Hyde Park, NY on a Saturday afternoon? We have had several issues with changes to our contracts, mistakes, typos and miscommunications...

Christina, Aug 20, 2016 17 850
Sagan
Mid-afternoon Wedding?
Sagan, on August 20, 2016 at 11:38 AM

I'm seeing a lot of later weddings (and far fewer early ones) mentioned on the forums, and I'm just wondering if we are doing something impolite by planning a 2:30 ceremony? The invites aren't ordered...

MiniMe, Aug 20, 2016 11 124
Nini
How will your groom get to the alter?
Nini, on August 20, 2016 at 1:58 AM

So me and my honey were talking "wedding talk" and I asked him.. "how will he get to the alter?" My questions you all is... How will your FH get to the alter? I know hell be down there when you're...

Loganna, Aug 20, 2016 29 1,348
Brittny
Invited then uninvited
Brittny, on August 19, 2016 at 4:44 PM

FH and I received a STD from his close friend about 2 months ago and it included 2 seats that we RSVP'd for his wedding. FH just received the invitation to his wedding for sept 10th this week and he...

Donna, Aug 20, 2016 58 2,712
Future Mrs. M
Convertible bridesmaid dresses, a good buy?!
Future Mrs. M, on September 12, 2012 at 8:53 PM

I have been searching and searching for bridesmaid dresses and have not found any that I love. Also, I have the issue that some dresses won't look good on all of my bridesmaids. I stumbled upon the...

Shonda, Aug 19, 2016 18 1,193
Holly
Name change/marriage license issue.
Holly, on August 19, 2016 at 2:51 PM

I had been back and forth on changing my name or not. We are getting married out of state so got our marriage license this week (not sure if we'll be back up there together before the wedding, and in...

Holly, Aug 19, 2016 8 171
Christine
Is September 3 too early for a fall themed wedding? Starting to regret our date choice
Christine, on August 18, 2016 at 10:52 AM

We both love fall and definitely want a fall wedding. However we ended up going with the 3rd, over Labor Day weekend, which is still summer. We could only afford a Sunday wedding, the guest minimums...

Along10, Aug 19, 2016 25 2,887
J
Seeking Advice: I don't want an engagement ring, but my boyfriend insists...
Justine, on August 18, 2016 at 11:46 PM

Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I haven't been seeing eye to eye on the concept of an engagement ring. I feel that they aren't worth the money, mining isn't good for the environment, and the tradition...

NotThatFreakinMary, Aug 19, 2016 45 3,002
A
Walking down aisle with stairs
Amanda, on August 19, 2016 at 11:28 AM

Has anyone ever walked down an aisle with stairs? My wedding dress is kinda long and I'm super scared of tripping down the stairs. Does anyone have any advice so I don't fall in front of all my...

Ashlyn610, Aug 19, 2016 8 1,691
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