How did I let this happen? I can't even answer that question myself. I forgot to invite a married couple, who have been family friends since before I was born. My question is, how do I send the invite now, without looking like a complete jerk? Do I send the invite and totally ignore the fact that the rsvp date is literally 9 days away? Or do I reach out and let them know I am a complete bone head before the invite gets to their mailbox? HELP!