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FutureMrs.Dyson
Receiving Line, is it necessary?
FutureMrs.Dyson, on August 18, 2016 at 12:25 PM

We will be attending our cocktail hour, should we have a receiving line, who is in it? Is it necessary? Is anyone else having a receiving or is it only something that a "black tie" event would have?

Yourlilfig, Aug 19, 2016 34 162
Shy-Bull
Do I really need something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue??
Shy-Bull, on August 18, 2016 at 5:59 PM

Title says it all... I am struggling trying to find things or think of ideas for this. Do I really need it?? I think it is just more of random tradition that I know nothing about, but I'm hoping it is...

Nancy Taussig, Aug 19, 2016 28 4,803
L
How to clearly distinguish if someone 'gets to bring' a plus one
Lauren, on August 18, 2016 at 10:52 PM

So I'm getting ready to send out invitations but am nervous about people asking for plus ones? ... How do I indicate if they do/do not have a plus one? How should I respond if they don't have a plus...

Zaz, Aug 19, 2016 33 9,056
Future Mrs. Goss
iMovie at the reception
Future Mrs. Goss, on August 18, 2016 at 11:44 PM

So I created two beautiful iMovies; with pictures and some video clips. One for my FH & one I created for my dad. I was hoping to play my FHs during dinner & my dads during the Father daughter dance;...

[anonymous], Aug 19, 2016 11 740
K
Sharing vows before ceremony
Kiley, on August 18, 2016 at 9:26 AM

I found this online and I can't tell if they're sharing vows or a love letter but I really like the idea of sharing vows before the ceremony. My FH is very nervous about saying his vows in front of a...

Jackie, Aug 18, 2016 10 5,036
mzj
Out of state maid of honor?
mzj, on August 18, 2016 at 12:24 AM

I'm torn between who to choose for my MOH. My first and foremost pick would be my cousin who I consider a Sister to me, we grew up together essentially. The problem is she lives all the way in...

JPL, Aug 18, 2016 36 5,576 1
MelissaErin
Alcohol at the rehearsal dinner?
MelissaErin, on August 18, 2016 at 2:18 PM

We will have a full open bar at the wedding, but I'm wondering what to do about the rehearsal? I want it to be more casual. My first choice was Portillos, a famous hot dog place in Chicago, but they...

MelissaErin, Aug 18, 2016 34 1,174
studentloansforlife
Is getting money for engagement a thing or is it cultural?
studentloansforlife, on August 18, 2016 at 3:07 PM

So upon sending our STD for our destination wedding this year, we received a card and a check (not small amounts) from everyone who received a STD on FH side. Also, FMIL had a friend we haven't met...

Bee, Aug 18, 2016 20 1,835
Amanda
Anyone had luck getting a dress and letting it out?
Amanda, on August 18, 2016 at 12:05 AM

There's a dress I LOVE! Only problem is they only go up to sz 16, I'm size 20 but can also fit into an 18. I know it's much easier to bring a dress in than let it out, but I was wondering, has anyone...

Sarah195, Aug 18, 2016 13 4,378
K
Wedding vows
Kiley, on August 17, 2016 at 2:05 PM

My FH and I are nervous about wedding vows. First off, they do take place after the rings have been placed on fingers, correct? Could we skip personalized vows for our ceremony?

Mrs.Brown, Aug 18, 2016 9 277
Candace
I purposely didn't invite my cousin or aunt to my wedding...
Candace, on August 18, 2016 at 7:59 AM

A few years ago, I moved in with my cousin who had been my best friend my entire life. She is two years older than me. Long story short, our relationship ended due to a combination of her speaking...

D&A2017, Aug 18, 2016 18 2,846
mimmalee
Ceremony to Reception Transition
mimmalee, on August 17, 2016 at 9:48 PM

We will be having the ceremony and reception in the same room set up with the chairs on one end for the ceremony and then the tables on the other end of the room. I'm just not sure how to make the...

annakay511, Aug 18, 2016 10 2,132
AlmostMrsE
Bridal shower and baby shower?
AlmostMrsE, on August 18, 2016 at 9:32 AM

Don't shoot me. But is it tacky to have a bridal shower in the same year as your baby shower? The way my friends/family are they will try to host both (not on the same day obviously) but at the...

AsYouWish, Aug 18, 2016 17 1,384
Mrs. Sitz
MIL who didn't attend wedding
Mrs. Sitz, on August 16, 2016 at 2:45 AM

Before the wedding me and my MIL got along great. I knew and loved this woman for eleven years. Then, 7 months prior to our wedding, my uncle died. The funeral was out of state & MIL's place just...

Isheefishee, Aug 18, 2016 19 159
Vanessa R.
NWR: Bitter yuck for animals
Vanessa R., on September 14, 2012 at 11:47 AM

Anyone ever use it? Well I tried it last night for my puppy as she likes to chew on my hands...well after washing my hands many times I can not get it off my hands and I must have touched my lips...

Jeff, Aug 17, 2016 14 5,244
JessZ
Inviting new friends
JessZ, on August 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM

What is the protocol on people that you met after you sent out the invites, but have gotten pretty close to and really enjoy their company? Me and FH started going to play D&D with our former...

MrsA, Aug 17, 2016 17 2,819
FutureMrsBueno
NWR: Birthday Party Invitation - tacky!
FutureMrsBueno, on August 17, 2016 at 11:42 AM

So I just got an invitation through Facebook events, for a birthday party that a friend is throwing...for herself. As I'm reading through all the detail I was thinking "ok, I wouldn't thrown myself a...

GymRat, Aug 17, 2016 51 1,718
Mary
Postponing the wedding
Mary , on August 16, 2016 at 9:40 PM

So, y'all have heard already I'm postponing the wedding for a while but I do have a question. Is it rude to go ahead and have the shower that is scheduled for Saturday? Both of us have people coming...

Mary, Aug 17, 2016 168 317
MD917
RSVP entrée selections
MD917, on August 7, 2016 at 1:08 AM

We are having a plated dinner with two entrée choices. We indicated on the RSVP that guests please initial their entrée selections. I did not anticipate that guests would just place an X next to their...

Katelina1, Aug 17, 2016 20 4,522
Vanessa
Please Help!! Wedding dress nightmare!!!! Wedding is a month away.
Vanessa, on August 15, 2016 at 10:07 PM

I purchased my dress for less than it's retail price online , after falling in love w it at Davids Bridal. I wanted a High-low dress, the dress I purchased was not "high-low" cut I was told it could...

Annelore, Aug 16, 2016 80 184
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