So while planning and talking about my wedding it feels weird to keep saying "groomsmen" since I am marrying a woman, there is no groom. I feel like it's validating the fact that so many people say there has to be a groom, they even ask if FW is the man in the relationship and playing the role of groom at the wedding. So calling them groomsmen would be entertaining the silly things people have said. I haven't asked yet because it's too early, but when I do ask men to be in my wedding party I don't know how to word it! What do you guys think?