Old friends who aren't invited joking about crashing my wedding?

I would be annoyed too. Just respond telling everyone "sorry guys, we are having a small wedding and couldn't invite everyone we wanted to".

I agree with above poster..

People are so annoying and awkward !!!

That is really annoying. I would just reach out to the friend who posted the photo and privately message her that you wish you could invite everyone, but due to venue/budget/etc. you are unable to. Pretty sure they're joking though (or at least I hope so) because who does that?

Part of what I'm struggling with is that we're actually having a pretty large wedding, and they're local. It's literally just that I don't want to invite them. Because I haven't spoken to them in like 10 years. And I didn't even end on the best of terms with the girl that wrote the comment. Ugh. Although I guess they'd have no way to know how big of a wedding it's going to be or was by the pictures, right?

I'd respond back being funny... "If I had a million bucks you all could come, but seeing that's not the answer I'll catch you at the next reunion!... Lol" thanks for the love and support!!

As long as they don't know your venue I think you'll be in the clear.

We had an old friend of my Fh crash our wedding. I had never met, John's friends hang out with him on occasion but he never does. We had extra food do to the fact that some people didn't come.

I wouldn't worry about it. Just don't send and invite. If they're bold enough to show up have them escorted out.

That's so crass!

So rude. Don't make anything public. Or if you do make sure you customize your settings to who can see your posts. I would comment exactly what ladylove said. Take care of it now. If they show up have them escorted out.

I do have to ask why are you Facebook friends with them if you don't want to keep in touch with them at all? Just block. I'm sure they'll get the hint that way.

I agree with @Ladylove! Make a lighthearted joke about it. If you really are worried about them crashing your wedding, hire security. My venue requires security anyways since we are having an open bar and I guess with liquor being served they need one for liability.

I would either ignore the comments or say what Bailey said and just joke that you were getting security

Here's the rest of the comments. They're not bad people necessarily, the first person was just a bit of a brat and never grew out of it and I grew apart from the other two and now I find them a tad annoying. As evidenced by the fact that they're posting things like this. Ugh. Luckily, none of the details of my wedding are anywhere (I actually haven't posted a single thing about it) and I made sure my wedding website doesn't show up if you Google me. But things can spread via word of mouth... I like @LadyLoves suggestion! I loled.