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Kayla
Donut Wedding Cake?!
Kayla, on July 24, 2017 at 2:30 PM

I REALLY want a teared donut cake instead of a traditional cake. Picture attached! We are estimating 250 guests. Plus we are getting cupcakes. Any ideas on where to get donuts and how much I'd be...

mel, Jul 24, 2017 10 1,617
TealWedding
Bridal shower with no registry?
TealWedding, on July 24, 2017 at 11:17 AM

I was just invited to a bridal shower for a distant family member. The invitation doesn't say they couple is registered anywhere, and I found their wedding website and it's completely bare except for...

MrsSki, Jul 24, 2017 28 277
Munchkin9218
Good Engagement gift?
Munchkin9218, on July 24, 2017 at 9:20 AM

Good Morning all!! So, my FH's younger sister just got engaged to her longterm GF (Hooray!!) We're all very excited, especially since FH and I already have plans to fly out and visit them in early...

annakay511, Jul 24, 2017 20 284
Selyn
Sending a church marriage announcement
Selyn, on July 23, 2017 at 7:43 PM

My husband and I just got married in May and I would like to send an announcement to our church as well as thank them for their support. I am having trouble wording the fact that we got married....

Mrs. B, Jul 24, 2017 2 101
Zilda
No Bridal Shower....
Zilda, on July 22, 2017 at 8:59 PM

My wedding is in 2 months and with the amount of planning for the wedding, hectic work schedule, and distance of my friends and family, it looks like I won't have the time to have a Bridal shower. I...

Mags, Jul 23, 2017 29 213
Cara
Reciprocating wedding invitations?
Cara, on July 23, 2017 at 4:32 PM

FH and I both come from large families- FMIL is one of 5 and my dad is one of 7. Our families together totaled 100 people, not including anybody's friends. We are struggling with so many aspects of...

Elise and Sammy, Jul 23, 2017 8 713
FutureMrs.L
Should I invite their grown children
FutureMrs.L, on July 23, 2017 at 10:38 AM

Hi all!! I have a dilemma. We're downsizing our guest list from 70 to about 30.. My mom has a couple that she's been friends with pretty much her entire life. I call them Aunt & Uncle because of how...

Elizabeth, Jul 23, 2017 10 1,288
Lovecat
Bridal Dinner faux pas?
Lovecat, on July 23, 2017 at 4:04 PM

My BFF wanted to throw me a bridal shower, but I didn't want one, so I suggested a ladies' night dinner out, followed by optional shenanigans at the local casino. My intention was most certainly not...

fallinthegarden, Jul 23, 2017 5 88
PrettyinPink
Parents Paying for 99 Percent of Wedding, But His Side Is...
PrettyinPink, on July 22, 2017 at 5:48 PM

Hey ladies. Long story short: I am super grateful to my parents who gave me a maximum budget for wedding and honeymoon combined. My family is from all over the place and a good amount of my family is...

E.V., Jul 23, 2017 91 4,370
W
Jeweler lost my ring *UPDATE*
Whitney , on July 23, 2017 at 1:15 PM

Hey everyone!! Here's a little update on my ring fiasco..so the jeweler STILL has not found my ring! We were able to come to an agreement and he made me a new ring based off of my original. He also...

Amy, Jul 23, 2017 4 1,348
Heather
Menu - Opinions Needed
Heather, on July 23, 2017 at 9:55 AM

My venue does not offer a selection of entrees for people to choose from. Everyone gets the same menu, except for vegetarians/food allergies, etc. I am leaning towards poultry, because while I would...

Heather, Jul 23, 2017 28 990 2
J
Wedding Invite Mistake
Jennifer, on July 22, 2017 at 8:14 PM

So we printed off our invitations and have already sent several out. My FMIL informed me a few days ago that there was no date on the invitation. *face palm* Totally my fault, I have no idea how I...

Powers2, Jul 23, 2017 43 243
Rachel
Hyphenated last names vs not!
Rachel, on July 21, 2017 at 8:23 PM

I have been asked a LOT by family members if I will be hyphenating my future last name and I didn't even realize it was potentially a popular thing. I personally don't want to hyphenate just because...

Mrs. Jjb, Jul 23, 2017 58 10,053
ShellyZ
Father Daughter Dance Dilemma
ShellyZ, on July 21, 2017 at 6:06 PM

Soooo looking for advice and/or other brides in the same boat. My parents divorced when I was really young. I don't have a bad relationship with my dad, but we're also not terribly close. He typically...

Maria, Jul 22, 2017 17 418
vero_g
Processional question - No bridal party
vero_g, on July 21, 2017 at 11:38 PM

Hey guys, We aren't having a bridal party but are still doing a processional. I figure it would go like this: Officiant (FH grandfather - He's a judge) FH My mom w/escort FH's parents FH's grandmother...

vero_g, Jul 22, 2017 6 855
Jameena
Groom's Cake
Jameena, on July 20, 2017 at 12:24 PM

Are you doing a groom's cake for your FH? A groom's cake traditionally is a gift from the bride to the groom that reflects his personality and interests in his favorite cake flavor. I was thinking...

Emily, Jul 22, 2017 47 158
Courtney
Is 5pm on invitation the afternoon or evening??
Courtney, on July 21, 2017 at 9:10 AM

I'm in the process of working on invitations (I know it's early, but attempting to take advantage of VistaPrints awesome sale right now). Our reception will be starting at 5pm with cocktail hour....

Nancy, Jul 22, 2017 50 18,213
C
Hitchswitch Name Change Kit
Courtney, on July 21, 2017 at 6:54 PM

Anyone know about this Hitchswitch Name Change Kit? It's been advertised by The Knot, but i can't tell if it's real. Supposedly you send in your info once, pay for it, and then get completely filled...

Courtney, Jul 22, 2017 7 410
Cecelia
VENUE TOURS ADVICE
Cecelia, on July 20, 2017 at 10:12 PM

Tomorrow my FH and I are going to tour our first venues and will be throughout the weekend. ANY advice on questions we should ask at the tours? Anything I should be cautious of? THANK YOU

Cecelia, Jul 22, 2017 15 348
Teresa
Food and allergies
Teresa, on July 20, 2017 at 8:22 PM

I have quite a few friends and family members with allergies. My fiancé and I already plan on accommodating them and having options for them but we have two problems and need some suggestions on how...

pammat, Jul 22, 2017 27 134
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