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Megan
Registry- mother involvement
Megan, on July 20, 2017 at 5:56 PM

So I had gone through a lot of the registry list with my fiancé and we had picked out china and a bunch of other stuff. I had not communicated well with my mother, but when she found out I had already...

Serena, Jul 22, 2017 29 1,358
Tiffany
No Bridal Party - Reception Entrance?? Help!
Tiffany, on July 22, 2017 at 2:40 AM

FH and I are not having a bridal party, and I'm kind of wondering what to do about the entrance into the reception...or even if we do one. After the ceremony, we are going to do (hopefully only) a few...

Talullah, Jul 22, 2017 5 1,531
Caitlin528
I don't know who will walk me down the aisle
Caitlin528, on July 21, 2017 at 8:05 AM

I am not sure who I want to have walk me down the aisle. My father hasn't really been in my life too much the past few years. He lives right down the road & I talk to him maybe once every month if...

Sheri, Jul 22, 2017 15 327
Lotti
Post-ceremony chair break-down
Lotti, on July 20, 2017 at 8:37 PM

Background: We will be having an outdoor ceremony and an indoor reception. However, the reception venue will not deal with our outdoor set-up/breakdown (fair enough). I am perfectly happy to set up...

Sheri, Jul 22, 2017 17 1,003
Savanah
Did I sign my marriage license wrong!?
Savanah, on July 20, 2017 at 10:30 PM

The officiant told me to sign my maiden name on the certificate but someone at work told me it was wrong and that I should of signed my new name..? I'm supposed to go to the SS office tomorrow with my...

SAK2SAH, Jul 21, 2017 41 26,967
Melody
Negotiating venue prices
Melody , on July 21, 2017 at 7:42 PM

I apologize ahead of time if this has been previously posted but I need some insight. We toured our first venue last week and it was breathtaking, everything that we could ask for with the exception...

Kate, Jul 21, 2017 26 717
traci
No Unity Candle??
traci, on July 20, 2017 at 12:32 PM

I would really like to do away with the unity candle/sand ceremony/wrist binding, etc. Are these relatively new concepts? I just don't remember them being a 'thing' the first time I married 25 years...

Celia Milton, Jul 21, 2017 52 308
Nikki
Transportation from hotel to venue rsvp?
Nikki, on March 14, 2016 at 1:51 AM

We are planning on renting busses to take guests from the hotel to the venue, as the hotel does not provide any shuttle service and the hotel is 15 minutes from the venue, and with an open bar we...

Blanchard, Jul 21, 2017 7 1,927
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Groomsmen attire cost debate
Private User, on January 25, 2015 at 1:41 AM

So my fiance is opting to have the groomsmen purchase matching suits as opposed to renting tuxes. We're taking advantage of a bogo offer the Men's Warehouse has that includes custom tailoring for no...

Brittany, Jul 21, 2017 16 2,081
Myrena
Second wedding big or small?
Myrena, on July 20, 2017 at 10:38 AM

So F H & I have both been married before, we were thinking of doing something small and intimate this time around. We were thinking maybe 20-25 people is it selfish to do it this way?

Diana, Jul 21, 2017 22 134
Mokobun
DW Guest expectation- Why????!!!??!!?
Mokobun, on July 20, 2017 at 6:37 PM

We are doing a small DW in Hawaii next May, with about 45 guests. I'm sure this DW concept is new to some people. BUT I'm a bit frustrated as I started getting questions from some guests about the...

WED18, Jul 21, 2017 14 119
Christina
Plus one etiquette
Christina, on July 16, 2017 at 8:44 AM

Hi! My fiancé and I were invited to a wedding, he is currently on a deployment and the bride is aware that he obviously won't be able to make the wedding. I only know the bride and will my know anyone...

Makela, Jul 21, 2017 43 1,464
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Hotel Room Block Attrition Charge, No Reduction - Wyndham San Diego Bayside
sako, on July 20, 2017 at 6:09 PM

Hello! I thought I'd ask here for some advices if anyone had a similar issue as I'm having.. Also thought to share so that no one will encounter this problem. It is very stressful and no one needs...

sako, Jul 20, 2017 8 281
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Mom not excited?
OL7889, on July 20, 2017 at 10:47 AM

Hi everyone, I'm really struggling with my mom when it comes to wedding planning. She was super excited initially but as planning started she has seemed less excited/become unbearable... 1. When she...

Vanessa, Jul 20, 2017 19 1,388 1
Molly
Tipping the photographer?
Molly, on July 20, 2017 at 2:34 PM

Are you supposed to tip the photographer? Our photographer works for a large company that does many aspects of weddings (dj, planning, flowers, uplighting, photobooth..etc) so not just a photography...

TrashWaifu, Jul 20, 2017 34 1,910
Jeanette
Tipping for Hair and Makeup Trials
Jeanette, on July 20, 2017 at 10:55 AM

I just have a tipping etiquette question for makeup artists who work for themselves and not for a salon. I am having a makeup trial at her home this weekend and she is charging me $100 for the...

QueSeraSera, Jul 20, 2017 5 317
Lisa
Bridal Shower Seating Chart
Lisa, on July 18, 2017 at 12:15 PM

I am in the process of getting the RSVP's for our bridal shower and we have a total of 140 women invited (90% is family). Should I do a seating charge for such a large number? Or should I let everyone...

Lisa, Jul 20, 2017 37 2,015
netenfaispas
When should my RSVP date be?
netenfaispas, on July 20, 2017 at 9:10 AM

Hello! So our wedding is May 26 of next year. Most guests will have to travel - we are getting married in my hometown of New Haven, and my guests are scattered everywhere from Tennessee to England and...

Emily, Jul 20, 2017 3 950
Anne
Rehearsal/Welcome Dinner Advice
Anne, on July 19, 2017 at 7:18 PM

Alright WW Community, I need your advice. My mom and I have not been seeing eye to eye for months on the rehearsal dinner/welcome dinner the night before the wedding. I am going to lay out both our...

BlueHenBride, Jul 20, 2017 39 1,445
TeamEJ2009
is a card box sign necessary?
TeamEJ2009, on July 18, 2017 at 1:57 AM

Our venue provides us with a card box.... Should I make a sign that says "card box" so people know where it is? I know when FH and I attend weddings, it is the first thing we look for. Also, should...

A&W, Jul 20, 2017 13 1,814
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