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Brittany
Etiquette on asking someone to be in your wedding. RANT!!
Brittany, on July 24, 2017 at 7:11 PM

Please tell me if this is normal etiquette or maybe I'm just not in the loop of being in a wedding party. My fiancé was asked to be the Best Man and I a Bridesmaid. This was before we got engaged...

DC, Jul 26, 2017 92 3,083
Amber
Real Rings with Ring Bearer?
Amber, on July 25, 2017 at 9:20 PM

So like the title says, I'm curious how many other couples let (are going to let) their ring bearer carry the real rings down the aisle. I'm concerned something may happened to them and would rather...

Celia Milton, Jul 26, 2017 23 440
Katie
Bridesmaid gifts for destination wedding
Katie, on July 26, 2017 at 5:03 AM

So far I only have earrings and a bridesmaid kimono for my BMs. I have paid for their dresses, hair and makeup. What would be a cute 'keepsake' gift for each of them? I am torn about whether to give...

Lauren, Jul 26, 2017 3 445
Hope
RSVP yes and not show?
Hope, on July 25, 2017 at 12:40 AM

Long story short, we had SIXTEEN people RSVP yes to the wedding and then not show up. Very, very annoying. My question is, with a few of these people, I considered them close friends. One in...

New, Jul 25, 2017 68 4,192
K
Mexican Food on the Menu
K, on July 20, 2017 at 7:55 PM

Hello all! I need some opinions on what else to add to our menu. FH and I decided a while back to have quesadillas on the menu for dinner. We are needing input from a larger crowd to help us on...

K, Jul 25, 2017 55 3,578
CarrieNewell
How to say this tactfully?
CarrieNewell, on August 18, 2009 at 2:52 PM

So me and my FH have decided that we really do not want young children at the wedding. We have both been to a wedding where a random whining or crying kid was allowed to sit through the entire...

Jessica, Jul 25, 2017 29 552
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Silicone Wedding Bands?
Sydney, on September 8, 2016 at 12:19 AM

My FH and I both work in a medical profession, and therefore would like to have flat bands because we would otherwise not really be able to wear them to work. Recently I've come across these silicone...

Mrs.R, Jul 25, 2017 15 593
Michelle
Cotton candy/ Snow Cone buffet?
Michelle, on July 25, 2017 at 3:03 PM

There's this rental place in my area and they have options of cotton candy or snow cone buffets. It's under the topic of wedding trends but wasn't sure if that's a good thing or not. I am having a...

COWS, Jul 25, 2017 13 99
Cathy
Plastic vs Glass
Cathy, on July 25, 2017 at 2:31 PM

My caterer offers hard plastic plates to rent for dinner for $1 a plate. They are plain white and really aren't that bad but they are still disposal plates.She also offers glass (I wouldn't...

AK, Jul 25, 2017 15 1,273
Phae
Adult/teen children's role in wedding?
Phae, on July 25, 2017 at 2:24 PM

My husband and I have 6 kids, ages 26-16. We're having a vow renewal for our 25th anniversary. Our oldest was there for our original wedding, but she was only a baby and my sister just held her for...

MrsB, Jul 25, 2017 4 165
Courtney
Couples Shower
Courtney, on July 25, 2017 at 11:33 AM

Our bridal party raised the idea of a couples shower to us recently, an idea to think about as I've never considered it. But I love the idea, my one question is who do you invite? I know the bridal...

Kate, Jul 25, 2017 3 595
Andrea
Adults only wording on invitations?
Andrea, on August 11, 2014 at 3:46 PM

I am having an adults only ceremony and reception. I have put it on my website and will be very specific on the save the dates & invitations on who is invited (i.e. addressed by name or Mr. and Mrs.)....

Patricia, Jul 25, 2017 7 807
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How did you pay?
OL7889, on July 24, 2017 at 2:29 PM

Hi everyone, Just curious for those who paid for a wedding on your own...how did you do it? Did you already have a lot of money saved? Take out a loan? Credit cards? Just curious!

MrsDrum, Jul 25, 2017 109 2,195
Nessanay
Postponing/Cancelling the wedding with less than 2 months to go
Nessanay, on July 24, 2017 at 5:36 PM

Hey all, I have not been on in awhile but figured I should post an update to a previous post. Awhile back, I had posted about FH suddenly not being sure about children. Many of you offered some great...

LaKesha, Jul 25, 2017 31 2,311
Natalie
Clapping during the wedding precession
Natalie, on July 24, 2017 at 10:37 PM

I went to a wedding this weekend for my FH's uncle and during the ceremony as the grandparents and wedding party walked in, people clapped. I have never been to a wedding where this happens (his...

Charlene, Jul 25, 2017 10 1,109
M
Selfie stick DIY photo area at cocktail hour?
Morgan, on July 24, 2017 at 1:48 PM

I'd love to have a photo booth at the wedding but it's just not in the budget at this point... so I was considering setting up a cute backdrop outside on the lawn (big gorgeous farm venue) for pre...

IdahoBride, Jul 24, 2017 15 400
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Photographer Gratuity
Shana, on July 24, 2017 at 5:34 PM

My wedding is Saturday and I have two photographers. They are a father daughter team and they are their own business. No one else works for them and they don't work for any sort of larger company. I...

Jay Farrell, Jul 24, 2017 14 157
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Mother wants to invite to shower but not wedding
Sara, on July 24, 2017 at 5:17 PM

Since I live in a different state, my mother wants to plan a "Girls Only Bridal Shower" The same weekend she hosts the shower will be the same weekend we dress shop. She wants to invite the Dallas...

Nancy, Jul 24, 2017 11 149
MrsBeetoBe
Facepalm....post-wedding brunch invite?
MrsBeetoBe, on July 24, 2017 at 1:25 PM

My invitations have proven to be the bane of my existence. Despite multiple multiple multiple proofs from different people, I'm still finding out things that i missed. Right now, I'm wondering if i...

Christina, Jul 24, 2017 9 759
Yoomie
No Family At Wedding
Yoomie, on July 24, 2017 at 6:32 AM

Without getting into it, almost all of my family (both parental sides plus my parents and sibling) may not be at my wedding with the exception of one brother. My FH has two large families (his...

Elphaba, Jul 24, 2017 21 1,737
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